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Insult | 44 | 75.86% | |
Compliment | 14 | 24.14% | |
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08-12-2024, 05:21 PM | |
In Search of a Life
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Insult or Compliment?
I personally don't understand how this isn't clearly an insult. |
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08-12-2024, 05:22 PM | #2 |
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I'll need to see a photo of her before deciding.
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08-12-2024, 05:24 PM | #3 |
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Probably depends on how you see yourself, I suppose. Seems like a compliment to me, but I'm happily married for 17 years.
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08-12-2024, 05:27 PM | #4 |
The man you could post like.
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Who the **** 'compliments' someone like that anyway? 'Yeah, you aren't hot enough to **** casually'.
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08-12-2024, 05:27 PM | #5 |
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She’s telling him that while he’s not ****able, he is the nice guy she’s ready for now that she’s been run through.
“Babe, your ass isn’t as tight as the gals I prefer to ****….but those birthing hips will be helpful, long term.” |
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08-12-2024, 05:28 PM | #6 |
My Mamma Says
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I see it both ways.. She thinks that he checks all the boxes emotionally and sexually.
On the other hand he could think she would cheat on with someone more attractive or he's not hot enough for a one night stand.. |
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08-12-2024, 05:29 PM | #7 |
Suupraa Geniuuusss
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Huh. Are 28-yr-old men that sensitive these days? He had to leave the house, lol?
I mean, isn't she saying that she doesn't see her bf as a casual one-night stand type of guy, but as a serious relationship kind of guy? Am I reading that wrong? Kids these days. Sounds like a lot of over-thinking for nothing. |
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08-12-2024, 05:29 PM | #8 |
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How is it a compliment? She's basically saying you're not attractive enough to be worth having sex with outside of a long term relationship. A relationship that she would presumably only want to have because of the non-sex things she values about you.
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08-12-2024, 05:30 PM | #9 |
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GUILTY!! Oh, wrong thread.
And need pics. |
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08-12-2024, 05:32 PM | #10 |
Would an idiot do that?
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I could see how it could bruise a young man's ego if some random woman told him that.... but if your girlfriend of 2.5 years said that, who the **** cares? It's probably a hint to put a ring on it, not some right jab to your manhood.
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08-12-2024, 05:34 PM | #11 |
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I'm a nerd. I've never tried to be the sexiest man alive, nor have I ever had a one-night stand. If that's your thing, more power to you, but it seems like a far higher compliment that she could stand being around you for life rather than a couple of hours.
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08-12-2024, 05:35 PM | #12 |
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Just because she wouldn’t immediately hook up or be fwb doesn’t mean she didn’t want to **** him. She was just playing it differently in hopes of it developing into something more
That’s the compliment she was trying to give, and it is one, but probably should’ve kept it to herself especially if drinks were involved |
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08-12-2024, 05:35 PM | #13 |
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It’s an insult if you’re under 25 or immature. It’s a compliment if you are over 25 or mature
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08-12-2024, 05:38 PM | #14 |
The man you could post like.
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08-12-2024, 05:40 PM | #15 |
The man you could post like.
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All she had to say is 'you're the man I want to spend the rest of my life with'. That's it. Gets the exact same message across without denigrating.
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