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shyguyms · 04-04-2008, 01:21 PM

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Part 1 of this adventure begins here. Shortly after this thread, this user reappeared under a username, but managed to stay under the radar. Until this happened.

I fell in love with my best friend or did i become best friends with the one i loved? hell even im confused.

for almost 6 years i spent all my time with my best friend ,alot of good and bad times that i would not take back for anything in this world but im not sure she feels the same way about it as me and that is killing me inside.

Should i feel the way i do about her now? I mean i will always love her and be grateful for meeting her, but i am so thrilled that she has found someone to love her the way her and her son needs to be loved. I finally came to the conclusion that i could not give her what she needed in life. The other day i seen her and her lil guy with her new man and seeing them i was thinking they all deserve that , they all deserve to be happy and at that moment i knew i had to move on with my life. i was so happy for them all that i cried a happy cry i just hope that someday we can all be friends and take the good out of that past 6 years and i will never forget all that she has done for me and my family.

There is still one thing killing me is that i can't talk to my best friend at a time like this when im dying inside and have noone to talk to.

I miss that in my life and i hope that someday she will feel the same way about me and be my friend , i cannot keep goiong on like this
I NEED MY BEST FRIEND BACK

**Iowanian** · 04-04-2008, 01:44 PM

what you need to do is go cut something with a chainsaw..maybe chop down a tree with an axe, kill a wild animal, drink beer and bang a slump buster.

ChiefsFire · 04-04-2008, 01:44 PM

Shy...you're not drinking or listening to Rush right now areya?

**The Franchise** · 04-04-2008, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

no she went her way, i went mine
but i cant stand not having her as my friend
I want her to not dwell on the past, just live in the future she can be happy i can be happy but we really shouldn't just throw a great friendship away so easy

Dude.....you may want the friendship...but she obviously doesn't anymore. Move on before you're wearing a scarf and living in San Francisco.

Demonpenz · 04-04-2008, 01:44 PM

I thought this thread was going to be about your homeboys stealing your girlfriend for a shot that it would work out forever. I have it happen a couple times and for st joe guys for the amount of whiskey drugs fights the guys go through as friends it sucks when one of your boys sells out for a bitch oh well.

**Donger** · 04-04-2008, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

but i am so thrilled that she has found someone to love her the way her and her son needs to be loved.

First question: who is the father of her son? You or the guy she is presently with?

**The Franchise** · 04-04-2008, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

what you need to do is go cut something with a chainsaw..maybe chop down a tree with an axe, kill a wild animal, drink beer and bang a slump buster.

BIG_DADDY · 04-04-2008, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

no she went her way, i went mine
but i cant stand not having her as my friend
I want her to not dwell on the past, just live in the future she can be happy i can be happy but we really shouldn't just throw a great friendship away so easy

Did you want to bang her or what?

**bogey** · 04-04-2008, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

no she went her way, i went mine
but i cant stand not having her as my friend
I want her to not dwell on the past, just live in the future she can be happy i can be happy but we really shouldn't just throw a great friendship away so easy

Either drink more, or put the booze away. Either way, your only hurting yourself by rolling in this self pity.

Psyko Tek · 04-04-2008, 01:45 PM

Man Up
Get Drunk
Get laid
Get over it
Get on with your life

BIG_DADDY · 04-04-2008, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

what you need to do is go cut something with a chainsaw..maybe chop down a tree with an axe, kill a wild animal, drink beer and bang a slump buster.

NICE!!

**bogey** · 04-04-2008, 01:48 PM

Are you listening to Michael Jackson's "Ben"?

shyguyms · 04-04-2008, 01:51 PM

yes i slept with her, we dated for 6 years, but why cant people that were best friends before the relationship just continue to be friends and forget that the rest of it even happend? i would do anything for her and her son and til the day i die she will be my best friend and nothing can ever change that!!

**The Franchise** · 04-04-2008, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

yes i slept with her, we dated for 6 years, but why cant people that were best friends before the relationship just continue to be friends and forget that the rest of it even happend? i would do anything for her and her son and til the day i die she will be my best friend and nothing can ever change that!!

Because friendships and relationships don't work like that.

Move on and spend time with your current girl....or she's going to leave you.

**Donger** · 04-04-2008, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

yes i slept with her, we dated for 6 years, but why cant people that were best friends before the relationship just continue to be friends and forget that the rest of it even happend? i would do anything for her and her son and til the day i die she will be my best friend and nothing can ever change that!!

Again, who is the father?

**Dartgod** · 04-04-2008, 01:53 PM

Sounds to me like you got in the "Friends Zone" and couldn't get out. I've been there and it sucks!

After meeting my wife, we went out one night and met up with some friends of hers. She introduced me as "just a friend". I pulled her aside and made sure she understood that I wasn't getting stuck in the friend zone again. I guess it worked. We'll be married 9 years next month.

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Dartgod Wasted away again... Dartgod's Avatar Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: in Margaritaville	Sounds to me like you got in the "Friends Zone" and couldn't get out. I've been there and it sucks! After meeting my wife, we went out one night and met up with some friends of hers. She introduced me as "just a friend". I pulled her aside and made sure she understood that I wasn't getting stuck in the friend zone again. I guess it worked. We'll be married 9 years next month.
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