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**luv** · 06-22-2007, 07:09 PM

I guess this will be the ****Official TMI Thread****

Mecca · 08-26-2008, 09:53 PM

Finding someone not attractive has nothing to do with being shallow, there are people you are just not physically attracted to at all, that's life.

A woman will say a man doing that to them is being an asshole but a woman will judge a man based on the size of his wallet and think that's fine.

**luv** · 08-26-2008, 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Claythan

I think we've pissed luv off.

No, I'm just annoyed that I haven't learned to never be amazed at the lack of tact or maturity men show. I guess I'm under some grand dillusion that they'll grow out of it. I'm finding out they don't.

Sure-Oz · 08-26-2008, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP

Who are you to define what does or does not qualify as a parameter of attraction?

attractive: pleasing to the eye or mind especially through beauty or charm

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q...e%3A+attractiv

Overweight girls are not pleasing to my eye or my mind. I am not 'attracted' to them. I also am not 'attracted' to certain personality traits. If I get with any chick who looks hot, then I agree that would be shallow. However, not pursuing someone I'm not attracted to does not make me shallow.

Agreed, ive dated some hot chicks that are really stupid, annoying etc...that turns me off...yet they were still fun to "hang" with....GF material is a diff story

**DaKCMan AP** · 08-26-2008, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

No, I'm just annoyed that I haven't learned to never be amazed at the lack of tact or maturity men show. I guess I'm under some grand dillusion that they'll grow out of it. I'm finding out they don't.

Not being attracted to all shapes and sizes = immature.

Ok.

Sure-Oz · 08-26-2008, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

No, I'm just annoyed that I haven't learned to never be amazed at the lack of tact or maturity men show. I guess I'm under some grand dillusion that they'll grow out of it. I'm finding out they don't.

What's wrong with a guy not liking a heavy person? The attraction isn't there for most of us, just like some chicks don't dig thin guys and only ripped guys etc...how does that make the person immature if they aren't attracted to a 200lb chick?

**luv** · 08-26-2008, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

Finding someone not attractive has nothing to do with being shallow, there are people you are just not physically attracted to at all, that's life.

A woman will say a man doing that to them is being an asshole but a woman will judge a man based on the size of his wallet and think that's fine.

Seeing as how I'm griping about being fat, you must be poor. We can both change our disposition, though. I did. Last year. Found out that although I felt better and looked better, people still saw me as fat.

**QuikSsurfer** · 08-26-2008, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

So, were you not attracted to her because she was overweight, or simply because you weren't attracted to her. If it's because she was fat, then it was a choice. Attraction not being a choice is when you can only say you weren't attracted to them simply because you weren't. Size, age, etc shouldn't matter.

Wat??

**DaKCMan AP** · 08-26-2008, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by QuikSsurfer

Wat??

Exactly.

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 08-26-2008, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

Hypocrite.

Me too. BIG time. Pun intended. There are definitely a lot more girls I can't have sex with than girls I can, but that doesn't mean you can't have some of what you want. I agree with the consensus here GC, you need to work on your skills with anyone willing at this point. The time for picking and choosing will come later. I wouldn't even begin to try and explain the uncanny resemblance between the first girl I ever porked and a blue whale. Get in where you fit in. You can improve that area with experience. Get drunk if necessary, I promise girls will become more attractive to you. Just don't drink too much............

**luv** · 08-26-2008, 10:00 PM

Okay. So I'm fat AND stupid. I'm just gonna stop trying.

Sure-Oz · 08-26-2008, 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

Okay. So I'm fat AND stupid. I'm just gonna stop trying.

Why are you taking it so damn personal cause everyone has their own tastes?

Mecca · 08-26-2008, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

Seeing as how I'm griping about being fat, you must be poor. We can both change our disposition, though. I did. Last year. Found out that although I felt better and looked better, people still saw me as fat.

I'm just saying everyone is shallow about something...but some people just aren't attracted to each other. If some chick has a crooked nose, missing front teeth and a big scar on her cheek should I somehow think she's ok looking?

Hammock Parties · 08-26-2008, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

I'm just saying everyone is shallow about something...but some people just aren't attracted to each other. If some chick has a crooked nose, missing front teeth and a big scar on her cheek should I somehow think she's ok looking?

See, I don't even care about noses. Or scars. My standards aren't too high. I'd **** a 9.

**luv** · 08-26-2008, 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Sure-Oz

Why are you taking it so damn personal cause everyone has their own tastes?

Because I've never been anyone's taste. The one time I thought I was, and he turns out to be a lying, cheating scum who used me. And you guys say that woen are the ones who use guys for such things as money and good credit.

**Iowanian** · 08-26-2008, 10:07 PM

There is someone, for everyone.

The elephant man had a soul mate who'd suck his taters.

Everyone does have their own tastes though. Some guys PREFER meaty women, some like stick figures, some guys like ethnic chics.....and its not like all women have the same taste either.

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Iowanian Supporter Iowanian's Avatar Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Utopia	There is someone, for everyone. The elephant man had a soul mate who'd suck his taters. Everyone does have their own tastes though. Some guys PREFER meaty women, some like stick figures, some guys like ethnic chics.....and its not like all women have the same taste either.
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