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02-15-2016, 09:59 AM | #3 | |
pie is never free
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02-15-2016, 10:52 AM | #4 | |
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02-15-2016, 11:32 AM | #5 | |
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02-15-2016, 09:36 AM | #6 |
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02-15-2016, 09:54 AM | #7 |
SuperBowl or bust
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Haven't read the thread, but let me say this.
If you take her back, once a cheater always a cheater. Realize it's probably not your fault, move on, forgive her and try to be "friends" while lawyering up and get custody of your kid. She will always be in your life, so it's best to try and be friendly to each other...for the sake of your child. DO NOT let her take your child. Also, don't try to convince yourself that you can just ignore it and move on. Some people chose counseling and whatnot, but she made the choice to throw everything away. |
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02-15-2016, 10:01 AM | #8 |
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These threads always annoy the shit out of me because of the guys that say "GET UR KID! MAKE DAT WHORE PAY CHILD SUPPORT!"
Unless there are substance abuse issues, mental health issues, or abuse issues, the courts are going to side with the mom 9 times out of 10. Beachtribe didn't mention any of these. Unless he has a bottomless bank account and the best family lawyer ever, he will get joint custody if they split. Also, the whole "once a cheater, always a cheater" line is bullshit. I know several people whose relationships have survived infidelity (both the man stepping out or the woman stepping out). If the relationship is worth saving and you want to make the effort to save it (and it will take a lot of effort), then try to save it. Obviously there is a reason as to why she cheated. She could have felt like beachtribe wasn't satisfying her emotionally, sexually, etc. Sometimes those things are fixable. Sometimes they aren't. Without knowing why she did it, then you can't make the determination as to whether it is save-able or not. |
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02-15-2016, 10:49 AM | #9 |
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she could also just be stuck on her EX.
may not have a damn thing to do with BT |
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02-15-2016, 10:50 AM | #10 |
Needs more middle fingers
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02-15-2016, 11:14 AM | #11 |
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Not sure why op is wanting to kill the dude when it's the girl who betrayed him
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02-15-2016, 11:19 AM | #12 |
Woman should only make babies
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02-15-2016, 11:57 AM | #13 |
pie is never free
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02-15-2016, 12:31 PM | #14 |
Woman should only make babies
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02-15-2016, 11:34 AM | #15 |
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