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02-15-2016, 02:01 PM | #2 | |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
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We still care very much about each other. She's my best friend. She really is. Shit. This is that part that hurts. Back to work. |
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02-15-2016, 02:16 PM | #3 | |
The Constitutional Choo choo
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I give it no more then six months, before you wake up and realize NO WAY IN HELL A DRUG ADDICTED FELON IS RAISING OR LIVING WITH MY SON! FTR. My X was and still is hot as hell. She's a cross between Bo Derrick & Kate Middleton. With steel blue eyes. Beauty is only skin deep. |
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02-15-2016, 02:40 PM | #4 | |
On Hiatus
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But I will reiterate what I posted.....get an Attorney and seek out a Counselor. You 2 might do well for a while but times and people change. And even if nothing goes wrong and you remain friends, there will still be moments of friction over who is making the decisions on your son's welfare. If you both want to remain friends, then spell out responsibilities legally....leave nothing to chance. That way there are no arguments about who handles what. And I won't even begin to mention all the fun you will have once your child becomes 18.... |
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02-15-2016, 02:05 PM | #5 |
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Liberty, MO
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I've got nothing too good to say Tribe. I've been on this rock for 49 years, and if there is one constant, it is that cheaters are cheaters forever. You have to be wired a certain way to be able to do that to someone that you love more than yourself.
Yeah, second chances have their place. You know, for stupid kids that steal someone elses shit, or someone that gets busted for smoking dope or something. But cheaters? They are a different kind of ****ed up. No remorse unless they get caught. They cheat over and over. Like I said, it's how they are wired. No sense of accountability, and very selfish. Aside from dealings with your kid, I wouldn't give this bitch the time of day. Now, or ever. if the cooch was on fire, I wouldn't piss on it. |
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02-15-2016, 02:20 PM | #6 | |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
Join Date: May 2007
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My internal alarms went off. I asked her what was up....and she told me. She didn't lie. She was straight with me. Being a hurt ass bitch is unattractive, no matter how I feel inside. Making her miserable or feel the pain I feel won't create anything positive. Hate Hurt rage wrath All ingredients for a perpetual shit sandwich that everyone has to take a bite of. Her and her twin sister call me a master manipulator. Now I know that they are giving me way too much credit as I'm no mastermind. I've just learned that you can much more easily get what you want with a smile and kindness. I'm keeping the big picture in view. |
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02-15-2016, 02:59 PM | #7 |
Ain't no relax!
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02-15-2016, 03:32 PM | #8 |
Supporter
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Location: Scott City KS
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Quit being a pussy. She dicked you over. Post nudes on the Internet. It's only fair.
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02-15-2016, 03:32 PM | #9 |
Banned
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02-15-2016, 03:34 PM | #10 |
Needs more middle fingers
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Location: San Diego
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02-15-2016, 03:45 PM | #11 |
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Maine
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Looks like Florida has a revenge porn law. I didn't bother to confirm, but, with it being Florida and all, I am assuming Floridians are required to post revenge porn after breakups.
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02-15-2016, 04:18 PM | #12 |
Kindness in words...
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02-15-2016, 03:46 PM | #13 |
Wasted away again...
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02-15-2016, 04:10 PM | #14 |
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I know this won't be a popular response but FWIW it is okay to hate the bitch and still be a great father to your son. And hate can be healthy. If she had any respect for you IMO she would have never deceived you to the point of you having to catch her with the dude. She should have come to you prior to moving on to a physical relationship with another person. Was the deceit a fall back plan in case it didn't work out with the other guy considering she knew his past history. She sounds like a typical selfish person to me.
I'm not in the camp that it is okay to stray from a relationship if two parties are willing to work it out when the consequences from that infidelity come to light. That is a have your cake and eat it mentality. A mentality that usually does not stand the course of a lifetime required in a healthy marriage. Best advice to give is to move on physically and mentally. Become an advocate of yourself and your son. Do not consider her feelings any longer. And enjoy the rest of your life like a ****ing rock star. |
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02-16-2016, 08:08 AM | #15 | |
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