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04-16-2009, 08:31 AM | #91 |
Stay positive, don't give up
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I accepted his friend request a few days ago
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04-16-2009, 08:34 AM | #92 |
"Think BOOM!"
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Sounds like she doesn't want to move in with you.
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04-16-2009, 08:35 AM | #93 |
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The goddamn plane has crashed into the mountains and there are no survivors in this one.
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04-16-2009, 08:38 AM | #94 |
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Hey, Rust, man...doesn't sound good. I'm not saying she is 100% guilty, but that is uncool.
I think the part that is scary is you don't know her friends. My wife and I know all of each other's friends. I talk about my wife all of the time, anyway. If she doesn't want you to be around her friends there is a problem unless it is some sort of exclusive hen's night or something. To all of our friends, on either side, it is me and my wife or vice versa. It is never just me or just her. As for male friends, it is possible for them to exist, but most of the ones that don't want to bone her are good friends with me also. I have some friends that are female that I have no intention of ****ing. It is possible, but if your girl isn't willing to include you, there are problems, not necessarily cheating, but problems with the relationship. I think the best thing to do is be open, honest, and explicit with your concerns. She may get pissed, but at some point during the relationship you will have to communicate. If you can't do it now, whether or not she is cheating, there will be problems later. Posted via Mobile Device |
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04-16-2009, 08:39 AM | #95 |
Woman should only make babies
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i imagine all the old guys on here been through hell in back with bitches
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04-16-2009, 08:39 AM | #96 |
Woman should only make babies
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be strong though, don't fall into the trap of being bored and still dating her. cut your losses drink whiskey and move on like a wayne jennings listening bad mother fer
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04-16-2009, 08:40 AM | #97 |
"Think BOOM!"
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04-16-2009, 08:40 AM | #98 |
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I agree w/ all the other posters... I think ur hosed. However, it might be early enough to fight for her. Meaning, if u truly love this girl... tell her how much u love her, spend time w/ her, and talk to her, tell her that u don't approve of her hanging out w/ her new "friends". That's all u can do.
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04-16-2009, 08:44 AM | #99 | |
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04-16-2009, 08:47 AM | #100 | |
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04-16-2009, 08:47 AM | #101 |
You think you can get by this?
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04-16-2009, 08:48 AM | #102 |
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Just talk to her. You don't have to go all caveman either. "It's my way or the highway" is as much a sign of insecurity as "oh god baby don't leeeeeave me". You're adults. Act like it.
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04-16-2009, 08:49 AM | #103 | |
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04-16-2009, 08:49 AM | #104 |
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Move on...quickly....if you haven't already.
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04-16-2009, 08:50 AM | #105 |
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I wasn't saying be a caveman and go ape, he just needs to be confident with himself when talking to her, im sure he's a bit insecure right now
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