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Yesterday, 02:31 PM | #2 |
MVP
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: nemo
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I was a better parent than my parents.
And my kids are better parents than me. sec |
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Yesterday, 05:29 PM | #3 | |
Grand champ
Join Date: Sep 2007
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The universe gave me a daughter first, I think, to soften me up. |
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Yesterday, 02:17 PM | #4 |
Court Jester
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Orlando
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I was actually present, unlike my Dad, so I know I’m better than he was. I raised one all by myself with no assistance from the mother, including no child support. That makes me half as good as my Mom who raised two on her own with no help.
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Yesterday, 02:29 PM | #5 |
Needs more middle fingers
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: San Diego
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And the world don't treat single dads the way it treats single moms either. Respect.
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Yesterday, 02:52 PM | #6 |
Court Jester
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Orlando
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Not as much, but honestly sometimes I would get more compliments from it while I was going through it. It’s almost like people don’t expect guys to take that role and just assume it’s a given that women will be the ones to do it. Fwiw, it was damn hard and I don’t recommend it. People need to work through that relationships, especially when they have children.
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Yesterday, 03:03 PM | #7 | |
Needs more middle fingers
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: San Diego
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I was like...idk, 10-11 years old, handn't eaten in 2 days, and my dad and I went to their office for food and we got turned away. We got turned away because WIC is for WOMEN, infants and children. And because my dad wasn't a women, we weren't eligible. LOL. Society always has had much more patience and care for single women raising children than single men. To my understanding they've since changed that policy but still.... |
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Yesterday, 02:21 PM | #8 |
pie is never free
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: the drivers seat
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No better, no worse
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Yesterday, 02:47 PM | #9 |
It was not a fair catch
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Correcting papers
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Yes. No doubt. I loved my parents, but mom never showed love. Was hard to get to know. It loosened up a little as there were grandkids. But not perfect.
Dad was great. Farmer-and spent life working. That was the top priority. But I was never the outgoing kid. |
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Yesterday, 02:54 PM | #10 |
Sleeping on the blacktop
Join Date: Nov 2013
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My dad was pretty grumpy when I was growing up and I didn't help the situation by being a shithead. I get along great with my parents now and visit them about every 3rd day... but I hope I have a better relationship with my kids than I did with my parents when I was a teen.
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Yesterday, 03:29 PM | #11 |
MER
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Colorado
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My dad had to carry my birth certificate around in his wallet because people would find a white male with a young brown girl to be odd.
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Yesterday, 10:35 PM | #12 | |
Has a particular set of skills
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: On the water
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I was way bigger than my classmates in elementary school. I was at least a foot taller than most and I was in shape. As a pitcher I threw faster than anyone had ever seen in Springfield(circa 67-69). I would have kids get in the batters box crying cause they were afraid. Sooooo every game there was mom's, dad's coaches etc. demanding my mom produce a birth certificate for me. She carried one on her at all my games. A lot sillier reason than your more serious reason. |
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Yesterday, 10:51 PM | #13 | |
MER
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Colorado
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But no less silly than the way we treated dads as bumbling dolts who only managed to keep kids alive until mommy got home. I’m sorry you got singled out. You are lucky I wasn’t an aunt or something coming to the games. |
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Yesterday, 10:59 PM | #14 | |
Has a particular set of skills
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: On the water
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By 6th grade I was 6'2". Stopped growing. I didn't really have any athletic talent, I was just bigger than other kids my age. BTW, I wanted to play with kids the same size and weight as me but the little league wouldn't allow it. And my Dad never attended one of my baseball games, Ever. How ****ed up is that shit? Maybe that's why I coached my sons teams even in sports I had no clue about(soccer). Last edited by BigRedChief; Yesterday at 11:11 PM.. |
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Yesterday, 03:32 PM | #15 |
I'm with the Banned
Join Date: Feb 2009
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Not even close. My mom was a saint. I'm more like an average Joe that had kids and was like "oh ****".
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