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05-18-2022, 06:53 PM | #16 |
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Well that's just it. We have "evaluations" and he tells me Son all this good stuff and tells him he is right in the middle of the pack in ranking but then doesn't really act like that.
I try to chalk it up to he is 22 and he really is not a good coach. Very inconsistent, micromanaging, loves to hear himself talk, plays favorites, etc. I keep telling myself it's probably not worth saying anything but then when is it? |
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05-18-2022, 06:55 PM | #17 |
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1st year coaches are just trying to keep the train on the track.
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05-18-2022, 06:57 PM | #19 |
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Don't give out individual awards at the youth level.
Team, team, team. The coach is young as hell. He will figure it out. |
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05-18-2022, 06:57 PM | #20 |
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Time to find a team with a better coach... 22 year old coaches are just learning... A older more experienced coach probably is better at keeping the whole team involved..
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05-18-2022, 06:58 PM | #21 |
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1. The MVP thing was a dick move
2. Get ready for 10 more years of BS from idiot coaches 3. Ask yourself if this team will sniff the playoffs |
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05-18-2022, 07:00 PM | #22 |
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I have no problems with handing out 1 award per game or something. But when you hand something out to 5 of 8 then another to one not even on your team it's really ****ed up.
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05-18-2022, 07:04 PM | #23 | |
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Good example, we scrimmaged against him tonight. My Son and our "favorite" for whatever reason, sat for 15 of the 20 minutes while the coach sat there with is smart board going over all these scenarios with them, over and over and over and over. He never paid attention to the scrimmage. Meanwhile the other Coach who also had 2 subs, subbed his guys 5 times and paid attention the entire time. |
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05-18-2022, 07:04 PM | #24 |
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How did the team do in the finals? If they won, then I’d say he did the right thing. It’s very confusing following along, though. Your son played the majority of the championship game, but didn’t get a pin, but also played very little in the meaningless game. Sounds like it evened out. He’s probably lucky to be getting as much playing time as he is getting if he’s one of the slower players trying to play LB or RB.
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When do you have a "talk" with your child's Coach?
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05-18-2022, 07:11 PM | #27 |
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He’s over-coaching. It’s normal for his experience level.
Needs to be basic and teach concepts and spacing, not specific plays and scenarios. Your team must be stacked for him to win while coaching kids like that. |
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05-18-2022, 07:15 PM | #28 |
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My son was easily the best player on his baseball team and the new woman coach batted him 8th.
She even said several times “your son hits a home run every time he swings!”. Yeah, put him in the 3 or 4 slot so he gets more plate appearances dumbass. It aggravating, just bite your lip and make it a teaching moment for your kid. Don’t complain about the coach in front of him or he will blame the coach in the future for everything instead of working harder to get better. |
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Our best player is our best because he is tall, lanky and fast. Generally plays Center Back and does nothing but stick his foot out or blast the ball out of bounds. But he is the Son of the Admin of the team so...... I just think it's a dick move to hand out awards to 5 kids for "trying hard" when the other 3 played just as hard and one of those three actually had 2 of our 7 goals. I am content at this point to say nothing but if he gets picked to move up to his team next season we might have to have a chat. |
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