...

shyguyms · 04-04-2008, 01:21 PM

Quote:

Part 1 of this adventure begins here. Shortly after this thread, this user reappeared under a username, but managed to stay under the radar. Until this happened.

I fell in love with my best friend or did i become best friends with the one i loved? hell even im confused.

for almost 6 years i spent all my time with my best friend ,alot of good and bad times that i would not take back for anything in this world but im not sure she feels the same way about it as me and that is killing me inside.

Should i feel the way i do about her now? I mean i will always love her and be grateful for meeting her, but i am so thrilled that she has found someone to love her the way her and her son needs to be loved. I finally came to the conclusion that i could not give her what she needed in life. The other day i seen her and her lil guy with her new man and seeing them i was thinking they all deserve that , they all deserve to be happy and at that moment i knew i had to move on with my life. i was so happy for them all that i cried a happy cry i just hope that someday we can all be friends and take the good out of that past 6 years and i will never forget all that she has done for me and my family.

There is still one thing killing me is that i can't talk to my best friend at a time like this when im dying inside and have noone to talk to.

I miss that in my life and i hope that someday she will feel the same way about me and be my friend , i cannot keep goiong on like this
I NEED MY BEST FRIEND BACK

shyguyms · 04-04-2008, 01:32 PM

we are both better off ,im with someone, and shes with someone, i am very happy for her and her kid . I dont need her to want me what i need is for her to be my best friend again!!

ChiefsFire · 04-04-2008, 01:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shyguyms

we are both better off im with someone, and shes with someone, i am very happy for her and her kid . I dont need her to want me what i need is for her to be my best friend again!!

Her partner will not approve of you 2 being buds. In my mind its all or nothing.

**bogey** · 04-04-2008, 01:34 PM

I had a few best friends that were girls, the best part of the best friend was the sex. My real best friends were dudes I could smoke and drink with and be me for better or worse. Most of the time it was worse and nobody gave a shit.

**The Franchise** · 04-04-2008, 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shyguyms

we are both better off im with someone, and shes with someone, i am very happy for her and her kid . I dont need her to want me what i need is for her to be my best friend again!!

So ****ing tell her that......jesus!

stlchiefs · 04-04-2008, 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shyguyms

we are both better off im with someone, and shes with someone, i am very happy for her and her kid . I dont need her to want me what i need is for her to be my best friend again!!

Good luck with that. If you were her new man would you want her being best friends and hanging around all the time with someone she had previously spent 6 years "dating"? If I were him I'd keep you at a safe distance without creating problems w/in my own relationship.

Brock · 04-04-2008, 01:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChiefsFire

Her partner will not approve of you 2 being buds. In my mind its all or nothing.

yeah, that's not going to work.

**bogey** · 04-04-2008, 01:36 PM

Ya gotta let it go. Your significant other would likely not appreciate you having a female "best friend".

shyguyms · 04-04-2008, 01:37 PM

we trecked thru the snowy roads of PA,Ohio
i remember Dayton Ohio was really bad on the way to K.C. and while stopping to rest in St. Louis as i slept in the cold freezing car, to awake and seeing her with my coat and all the blankets on was priceless i mean my lips were blue,lol
to the boobie bumpin it was all good. Gessh she must of been warm,lol
I have never had so much fun in my entire life than that trip and i will never forget that special time in my life.

Yes we were best friends

**The Franchise** · 04-04-2008, 01:38 PM

Turn in your man card.

**Iowanian** · 04-04-2008, 01:40 PM

I'm not Oprah, or Humphrey Bogart....but something in this story isn't adding up.

You're best friends....but you can't be friends because she's with another dude?

That either means you told her and she went another way or it creaped her out...the other dude can see it in you and doesn't want you around...or you're really butthurt that she got with someone else.

It sounds like you missed your boat....time to move on.

Life is a river, not a puddle. You can't swim back up shit creek with a baby spoon.

Other than having intercourse with another man...this outpouring of emotion might be your gayest moment.

raybec 4 · 04-04-2008, 01:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shyguyms

we trecked thru the snowy roads of PA,Ohio
i remember Dayton Ohio was really bad on the way to K.C. and while stopping to rest in St. Louis as i slept in the cold freezing car, to awake and seeing her with my coat and all the blankets on was priceless i mean my lips were blue,lol
to the boobie bumpin it was all good. Gessh she must of been warm,lol
I have never had so much fun in my entire life than that trip and i will never forget that special time in my life.

Yes we were best friends

You are a chick.

BIG_DADDY · 04-04-2008, 01:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shyguyms

we are both better off ,im with someone, and shes with someone, i am very happy for her and her kid . I dont need her to want me what i need is for her to be my best friend again!!

What other self depricating behavior do you indulge in?

**bogey** · 04-04-2008, 01:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shyguyms

we trecked thru the snowy roads of PA,Ohio
i remember Dayton Ohio was really bad on the way to K.C. and while stopping to rest in St. Louis as i slept in the cold freezing car, to awake and seeing her with my coat and all the blankets on was priceless i mean my lips were blue,lol
to the boobie bumpin it was all good. Gessh she must of been warm,lol
I have never had so much fun in my entire life than that trip and i will never forget that special time in my life.

Yes we were best friends

You need to get a grip. Whatever it was, it's over. Move on or you're going to lose the one you're with.

shyguyms · 04-04-2008, 01:43 PM

no she went her way, i went mine
but i cant stand not having her as my friend
I want her to not dwell on the past, just live in the future she can be happy i can be happy but we really shouldn't just throw a great friendship away so easy

**BigMeatballDave** · 04-04-2008, 01:43 PM

I've been there, dude. It sucks.

04-04-2008, 01:32 PM	#16
shyguyms Starter shyguyms's Avatar Join Date: Sep 2002	we are both better off ,im with someone, and shes with someone, i am very happy for her and her kid . I dont need her to want me what i need is for her to be my best friend again!! Last edited by shyguyms; 04-04-2008 at 01:40 PM..
Posts: 258

04-04-2008, 01:34 PM	#18
bogey Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: California	I had a few best friends that were girls, the best part of the best friend was the sex. My real best friends were dudes I could smoke and drink with and be me for better or worse. Most of the time it was worse and nobody gave a shit.
Posts: 2,264

04-04-2008, 01:36 PM	#22
bogey Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: California	Ya gotta let it go. Your significant other would likely not appreciate you having a female "best friend".
Posts: 2,264

04-04-2008, 01:37 PM	#23
shyguyms Starter shyguyms's Avatar Join Date: Sep 2002	we trecked thru the snowy roads of PA,Ohio i remember Dayton Ohio was really bad on the way to K.C. and while stopping to rest in St. Louis as i slept in the cold freezing car, to awake and seeing her with my coat and all the blankets on was priceless i mean my lips were blue,lol to the boobie bumpin it was all good. Gessh she must of been warm,lol I have never had so much fun in my entire life than that trip and i will never forget that special time in my life. Yes we were best friends
Posts: 258

04-04-2008, 01:38 PM	#24
The Franchise Most Valuable Villain The Franchise's Avatar Join Date: Dec 2006	Turn in your man card.
Posts: 92,316

04-04-2008, 01:40 PM	#25
Iowanian Supporter Iowanian's Avatar Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Utopia	I'm not Oprah, or Humphrey Bogart....but something in this story isn't adding up. You're best friends....but you can't be friends because she's with another dude? That either means you told her and she went another way or it creaped her out...the other dude can see it in you and doesn't want you around...or you're really butthurt that she got with someone else. It sounds like you missed your boat....time to move on. Life is a river, not a puddle. You can't swim back up shit creek with a baby spoon. Other than having intercourse with another man...this outpouring of emotion might be your gayest moment.
Posts: 62,241

04-04-2008, 01:43 PM	#29
shyguyms Starter shyguyms's Avatar Join Date: Sep 2002	no she went her way, i went mine but i cant stand not having her as my friend I want her to not dwell on the past, just live in the future she can be happy i can be happy but we really shouldn't just throw a great friendship away so easy
Posts: 258

04-04-2008, 01:43 PM	#30
BigMeatballDave GBM 8-12-15 BigMeatballDave's Avatar Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Dayton, Oh.	I've been there, dude. It sucks.
Posts: 59,997