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02-15-2016, 12:00 PM | #2 |
#triggering
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I think the Internet and forums like this are fine for releasing frustrations and venting... but counseling on sensitive issues like this, when the details are unknown... not healthy.
I wish the guy the best for what he's going through, but take little of what's said here to heart, outside of the best wishes type stuff. Only you and your wife/significant other (didn't read to see if you're married, just making the assumption) know what's best for you here, if it's meant to be, you can work through it. |
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02-15-2016, 12:31 PM | #3 | |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
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Sound advice. Everyone's is regarding their reference point for what inspired it in them. Information is only as valuable as how you decide to use it..or not use it. |
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02-15-2016, 12:33 PM | #4 |
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The best advise I received was to feel your pain and let it run it's course (but not too long). Let it happen. Don't try and cover or suppress it. Deal with it how YOU deal with it.
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02-15-2016, 12:42 PM | #5 |
Stay positive, don't give up
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This...and move forward and do things that make you happy and continue with that. Heartbreak sucks...esp when you believe you are with the one. Trust me it gets better!
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02-15-2016, 01:12 PM | #6 |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
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Just to be clear.
I'm a huge advocate of 2nd chances. Even for this guy. If he has his shit together and she wants to be with him. I think I'll actually be happy for her. But taking on the full brunt of my son's needs is going to make her have a nervous breakdown. I'm afraid if I'm too nice she's gonna be calling me for help non-stop. And that will piss me off. She has ALWAYS put her needs education/ career ahead of mine, and I have always been there to handle the weight of the world. Hope he's gotta strong back. |
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02-15-2016, 01:35 PM | #7 | |
Kindness in words...
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Take all you can from that. It makes you better and your kid better. I wouldn't worry too much about what "they" do. Just focus on your kid. And she'll be calling you non-stop because that's what she's come to expect. Make sure that she's responsible for her parenting time, but take every chance to be with your kid that you can. You don't ever get that time or opportunity back and they are what is important now, not you (or moreso anyway). And, for the record, most nurses are ****ing bat shit crazy. One has the tendency to think "Oh, the medical field...blah, blah, blah." Nope. Completely ****ing insane as a group. |
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02-15-2016, 01:46 PM | #8 |
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Tribe, I gotta admit, you are handling this far better than I would.
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02-15-2016, 01:56 PM | #9 |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
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02-15-2016, 01:58 PM | #10 |
Supporter
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02-15-2016, 01:19 PM | #11 |
Banned
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The rebirth of beach tribe has begun!
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02-15-2016, 01:21 PM | #12 |
Woman should only make babies
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It's important to note that being honest to a group of good dudes helps the good dudes as well. I know lots of times life is just ho hum, but someone actually trying to do the right thing, trying to give a ****, brings out inspiration in me. It also reflects on times when I was out on the grind and shit was ****ed up. Good on you man.
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02-15-2016, 01:25 PM | #13 |
The Constitutional Choo choo
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Jesus. Its like reading my Bio with my X
If & when you decide you want custody of your son. ,......................and you will You will destroy her in a court room. No judge is gonna look at her move to be with a crack head prison rat as a positive move for your son. Again...Your posts today with the X are quite similar to what I went through ten years ago. I have custody and the bitch pays me $600.00 a month |
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02-15-2016, 01:29 PM | #14 | |
#triggering
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02-15-2016, 01:32 PM | #15 | |
The Constitutional Choo choo
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Edit/// I did keep notes. I wrote everything down on paper. To this day those notes are locked up in my gun vault |
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