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Vegas_Dave · 10-02-2024, 12:05 AM

I lost my oldest son this weekend. I have 5 kids and my oldest son, 22 years old, lost his multi year battle to depression this weekend.

I've been a long time CP member and while I don't post a lot, I've been here for a long time.

I post here for a simple reason... Love those in your life that you have the opportunity to love. Whether it is you kid, parent, sibling or close friend. Love them.

I never missed the opportunity to tell my son he was loved, hugging him and having part of our regular life. But from here on out, I will never have that opportunity again.

He leaves behind 4 siblings who are wrecked by this - brothers aged 20, 15 & 13, and a sister who adored him age 10.

We all will get through this, but I can attest that the pain that is felt through this has no words in any language that accurately depict the pain.

Love your people, always.

Pablo · Yesterday, 06:33 PM

That's just terrible and I'm very sorry to hear that.

You're in my thoughts and thank you for the reminder to cherish the ones you love. We all need it from time to time.

EPodolak · Yesterday, 07:44 PM

I know the illness well. I wish you and your family all the peace in the world Dave.

REDHOTGTO · Yesterday, 07:49 PM

man im so sorry for your loss, i too have a child thats been depressed for a long time, shes made it to 32 yrs old and fights to keep makin it. i pray she keeps fighting it. so sorry your son lost his fight, its a tough thing to go through. sure hope your other children will find a way to cope with this loss, god bless my friend.

Calcountry · Yesterday, 08:43 PM

So sorry for your loss man.

10-02-2024, 12:05 AM
Vegas_Dave Veteran Vegas_Dave's Avatar Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Las Vegas, NV	Lost my oldest son this weekend I lost my oldest son this weekend. I have 5 kids and my oldest son, 22 years old, lost his multi year battle to depression this weekend. I've been a long time CP member and while I don't post a lot, I've been here for a long time. I post here for a simple reason... Love those in your life that you have the opportunity to love. Whether it is you kid, parent, sibling or close friend. Love them. I never missed the opportunity to tell my son he was loved, hugging him and having part of our regular life. But from here on out, I will never have that opportunity again. He leaves behind 4 siblings who are wrecked by this - brothers aged 20, 15 & 13, and a sister who adored him age 10. We all will get through this, but I can attest that the pain that is felt through this has no words in any language that accurately depict the pain. Love your people, always.
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Yesterday, 06:33 PM	#106
Pablo Ultrabanned Pablo's Avatar Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Northland	That's just terrible and I'm very sorry to hear that. You're in my thoughts and thank you for the reminder to cherish the ones you love. We all need it from time to time.
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Yesterday, 07:44 PM	#107
EPodolak Spooky Action EPodolak's Avatar Join Date: Dec 2003	I know the illness well. I wish you and your family all the peace in the world Dave.
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Yesterday, 07:49 PM	#108
REDHOTGTO Veteran REDHOTGTO's Avatar Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: INDEPENDENCE,KANSAS	man im so sorry for your loss, i too have a child thats been depressed for a long time, shes made it to 32 yrs old and fights to keep makin it. i pray she keeps fighting it. so sorry your son lost his fight, its a tough thing to go through. sure hope your other children will find a way to cope with this loss, god bless my friend.
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Yesterday, 08:43 PM	#109
Calcountry Shoot the tube Calcountry's Avatar Join Date: Oct 2003	So sorry for your loss man.
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