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Old 06-18-2024, 08:29 PM  
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Reporting someone to CPS

So I have an uncomfortable question to ask- I have a trashy co-worker who's a huge loud mouth bitch. She tells the whole office her business. Usually I just ignore it because I don't care and it's none of my business.

Lately she's been talking about some obnoxious ****ed up shit. She's talked about how she and her bf drive with her kids in the car after they've been drinking "but aren't to the point of being ****ed up" pretty stupid but whatever. Anyway she shares some of the most vile disturbing shit the other day about how she caught her nephew doing sexual stuff with her daughter like finger in the vagina.

I don't want to go to HR about it because it will just get me in trouble. Would I be out of line to report it to CPS? This lady sounds like she has no business having children.
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:06 PM   #16
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Correct. Unfortunately, with such vague information (not your fault, Titty) they won't actually do much but they will open a file and her name will be in it. Someone as trashy and as stupid as this person seems to be will **** something else up for her kids down the line and they will be more apt to do something if they already have a file.
Thanks there's other stuff I want to leave out as this is a public message board but you get the gist
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:07 PM   #17
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I guess to answer your question I'm not sure unless I knew what the outcome would be.

I mean usually I don't think family business is strangers business but **** when you put it out there like that. Maybe I grew up in a sheltered home or something but I found what I heard totally disgusting
I'd report what you heard. It's easy and gets this family on record somewhere. That way if the school reports something too, it's going to get escalated much quicker.

Do the right thing.
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:08 PM   #18
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https://dss.mo.gov/cd/keeping-kids-s...2D2966%20(text).

Use the hotline.
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:10 PM   #19
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Yep, most states have hotlines specifically for situations like this.
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:13 PM   #20
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Mom didn't say she was drunk and the kids are consentual minors?

Nothing will happen.
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:14 PM   #21
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Mom didn't say she was drunk and the kids are consentual minors?

Nothing will happen.
The kid is under 10 years old that's ****ed up
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:15 PM   #22
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The kid is under 10 years old that's ****ed up
Ok

You didn't say that.

You should ask yourself what kind of man knows about an assault on a child and comes to CP for advice?

Your morality is dependant on public opinion and HR. Go sit on a cactus.
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:16 PM   #23
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:16 PM   #24
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Mom didn't say she was drunk and the kids are consentual minors?

Nothing will happen.
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Ok

You didn't say that.

You should ask yourself what kind of man knows about an assault on a child and comes to CP for advice?

Your morality is dependant on public opinion and HR. Go sit on a cactus.
You are a giant ****
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:16 PM   #25
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I spent 6 years as a foster parent and am intimately acquainted with CPS (at least in Missouri—don't know where you're at).

1. Yes, report it. If there's any suspicion of endangerment, neglect, or abuse, better to report it than let it slide. Too many of my kids could have suffered less if someone would have picked up the phone earlier.

2. Be aware CPS/DSS might not move fast. They are overwhelmed and understaffed. They also prioritize cases from mandated reporters (e.g. doctors, teachers, foster parents), b/c they expect us to have a better understanding of what abuse, neglect, and endangerment are. Nonetheless, it will at least put the kids on the radar.

3. I've done reports before. It never feels right, but it is the right thing.
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:17 PM   #26
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You are a giant ****
Yeah the guy who needs to know what to do about child sexual assault doesn't really get an opinion.
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:18 PM   #27
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Yeah the guy who needs to know what to do about child sexual assault doesn't really get an opinion.
The message board high horse is all you have. Go smoke some more pot
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:19 PM   #28
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Ok

You didn't say that.

You should ask yourself what kind of man knows about an assault on a child and comes to CP for advice?

Your morality is dependant on public opinion and HR. Go sit on a cactus.
Sadly many people brush these comments off and do nothing. I think Billay is here simply to get validation that he is doing the right thing. It's awkward to have to make a phone call and provide these details so many people don't do it. I applaud him. The ones that brush off these comments allow child abuse to go on for years.
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:19 PM   #29
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The message board high horse is all you have. Go smoke some more pot
You brought the horse.
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Old 06-18-2024, 09:20 PM   #30
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