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#121 |
Supporter
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: On a yellow brick road.
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#122 |
Time Keeps On Slipping
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Overland Park
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All this online advice we have been giving him is nice and dandy but if the dude has feelings for the girl, he's devastated right about now. It's never easy to break things off, especially after years of seeing each other. Stay strong, man.
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#123 | |
Mahomes Dynasty
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Parts Unknown
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That's kinda a huge red flag. If it seems fishy, it's probably fishy business going on. just sayin. There are a lot of fish in the sea, I would get out now before you move in and shit really hits the fan down the road and you've put yourself in a horrible position. |
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#124 |
Stay positive, don't give up
Join Date: Dec 2001
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Agreed, easier said than done...it sucks, hopefully things work out for him
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#125 |
MVP
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Lee's Summit
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Agreed. Especially if you haven't known the guy for long. I mean, I have guy friends that I've known since I was practically born that I wouldn't ever go to a movie with alone...maybe dinner or happy hour, but never a movie.
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#126 |
MVP
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Lee's Summit
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#127 |
Damnit Peg
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Overland Park
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I have a feeling her bitter single friend is trying to keep her single as well.
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#128 |
"Think BOOM!"
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: 33.675° N 106.475° W
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I don't understand all the "cut her loose" advice. For the sake of the time and emotion invested in the relationship, talk to her. She may just be having cold feet about moving in together.
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#129 | |
Stuff & Things
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: The Yukon
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However, if she were to do something like this, I sure as hell wouldn't sit around and ask for advice from these guys. I'd be living out of the pay by hour motel while contacting legal representation. |
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#130 |
Mammoth penis
Join Date: May 2006
Location: Springfield
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Sorry dude, unless this guy is a pillowbiter they've most likely already ****ed.
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#131 |
Banned
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Dallas, Texas
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I learned a long time ago that, if you can't trust someone, they aren't worth being in a relationship with.
Obviously, since you brought up the fact she doesn't like going to the bars with you, you have breathed down her neck about it before...and it makes you come off as insecure, and girls HATE insecurity. so I hate to say it, but it's a lost cause...it's not even talk worthy...she's moved on she just "cares" about you too much and doesn't know how to break it to you... Sucks dude...I remember all throughout my first relationship I had the girl in my back pocket...I could break up with her, do whatever I wanted...hang out with my friends...basically treat her like shit and she'd run back to me every time because she couldn't "have" me (or some gay shit like that)... Then I went away to school and started hearing these rumors about this girl "moving on"...which I took as a personal challenge...and so obviously I just HAD to get her back...and did...but suddenly she had the power over me...and suddenly I became jealous and stared asking questions and then it just all fell apart and HONESTLY, I would never do that to myself again...once a girl like that gets the power she starts doing shit like going out and not wanting you around, hitting movies with "just a friend"...it was a learning experience for me. It's best for you to play it cool, flat out dump the bitch (even if that's the last thing you want to do), and act like a badass about it (because at least then you'll have the satisfaction of breaking things up that were pined for disaster anyways...and believe me it'll hurt her more if you break up with her because she thinks she's playing you)... Just remember, because it's true, time does heel all wounds...no matter how much time you spent with the whore there will always be the next whore. when things go bad for me in any part of my life...I just think to myself..."will I care in 5 years?" and then I get really drunk and have my roommate pee on me and all of my problems disappear! |
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#132 |
In Search of a Life
Join Date: Dec 2005
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#133 |
Be Kind To Your Pets
Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: Glorious Independence, MO
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This is why asking for life advice on the CP is generally not such a good idea.
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#134 |
Mahomes Dynasty
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Parts Unknown
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I get your point, but really I dont see what the difference is between going to dinner or going to a movie. Is a movie supposed to be more "date-ish" ?
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#135 |
a haw haw haw
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: MIZZOU
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Never a movie?Unless it's a drive-in theatre I would think happy hour would be the NEVER here,but then again the happy hours I attend are very happy.
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