|
|
03-03-2016, 08:37 PM | #2 |
Starter
Join Date: Apr 2013
|
It is one way to get on the birth certificate and one way to better one's chances of getting custody of the child. I mean, I wouldn't get married for that reason and if I worried about it that much, I probably wouldn't be with her; and there are other ways of getting the kid, but I don't trust the system and I would want every obstacle in front of her to try to take the kid, as I feel the courts side with the women too often. She might not want to fight over the kid, don't know her.
No, I am NOT criticizing anyone who does not get married or has a kid outside of marriage. |
Posts: 144
|
02-13-2016, 10:02 PM | #3 |
Mostly Ignored
Join Date: Jul 2013
|
|
Posts: 18,096
|
02-13-2016, 10:27 PM | #4 |
Grand champ
Join Date: Sep 2007
|
|
Posts: 45,380
|
1 0 |
02-13-2016, 10:45 PM | #5 |
Consuming CP souls
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: U.S.A.
|
|
Posts: 70,757
|
02-13-2016, 10:46 PM | #6 |
Most Valuable Villain
Join Date: Dec 2006
|
|
Posts: 92,316
|
0 1 |
02-14-2016, 10:09 AM | #7 |
BAMF
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Your Face
|
|
Posts: 27,207
|
02-13-2016, 11:14 PM | #8 |
Like I woke up in Wonderland..
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: KCMO
|
|
Posts: 18,687
|
02-13-2016, 10:00 PM | #9 |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
Join Date: May 2007
Location: ft.lauderdale
|
I think all the crazy is behind in this day and age.
Just gotta deal with the pain. Not at risk to do anything nuts.......I think.. |
Posts: 21,429
|
02-13-2016, 10:03 PM | #10 |
Supporter
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Hollywood, CA
|
|
Posts: 88,960
|
1 0 |
02-13-2016, 10:08 PM | #11 |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
Join Date: May 2007
Location: ft.lauderdale
|
|
Posts: 21,429
|
02-13-2016, 10:19 PM | #12 |
Supporter
Join Date: Dec 2009
|
As i mentioned previously, I have been in this situation a few times. Here is my favorite recovery story:
I was dating a girl while in the Army and she phased up before me. She was able to go off post, wear civilian clothes, get weekend passes, and drive a car. I was left in the barracks with a cerfew. My best friend phased up with her. I felt he would look out for her for me and be a decent friend. I was wrong. I finally phased up, after some rocky moments in our relationship. We took a "break" but she asked me to join her on a Friday night with my best friend and I thought things were improving. We went to a hookah bar, smoked, drank, and had a genuinely great time. We went back to the rented hotel room we all paid for to drink down cheaper beer and bullshit. This is where all hell broke loose. I kid you not, within 30 minutes, the girl I cared about started making out with my best friend right in front of me. It eventually escalated to their clothes coming off, at which point I gathered my shit and got the **** out of there before I went to jail. This was a tough one to recover from; my girlfriend of 2 years before the Army cheated on me with my best friend, saying that she missed me and my friend reminder her of me. Bullshit. So here I was again. This time around I took a different stance: I would kill them with kindness. I was the only one with a car. They had the balls to ask me on occasion to take them to a hotel for the weekend. I obliged with every ounce of my soul writhing. To make a long story short, I kept this up for some time, and it eventually are away at their relationship. With me being their chauffeur, I got to witness it firsthand. Karma at its finest. These things make me who I am today, and I know, without a doubt, I can handle some shit. I wish you the best, bro. Hang in there. |
Posts: 10,773
|
02-13-2016, 10:02 PM | #13 |
Banned
Join Date: Jan 2013
|
None of these words of wisdom mean shit right now, I know. But please listen to the concern for your safety. Cheaters always come out on the short end anyway and ex's, hers and yours, are ex's for a reason.
|
Posts: 53,803
|
02-13-2016, 10:04 PM | #14 |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
Join Date: May 2007
Location: ft.lauderdale
|
Haven't had my heart broken since my HS sweatheart.
I left the earth scorched, beaten and bloody behind me. It didn't help anything......... |
Posts: 21,429
|
02-13-2016, 10:08 PM | #15 | |
Supporter
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Hollywood, CA
|
Quote:
You'll bounce back strong, of that I have no doubt. The real issue is now, today. Call all of your bro's and if they're unavailable, continue chatting here. Talking this shit out is more than half the battle. You know that you have a lot to say, so just say it. If you can't say it here, fire up your PC or Mac or Device and start typing away so that you say it. Say it, Brotha, say it. Let it all out. You may not even remember what you typed in the morning but you'll get a good night's rest and peace of mind by just letting it all out in a productive yet passive way. We're all here for you, Dude. |
|
Posts: 88,960
|
|
|