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If you have a healty, committed relationship and clear personal boundries, basic flirting is ok both on and offline.
My wife has several times said that she caught me flirting (it wasn't even dliberate on my part), and she thought it was "cute".
I would never cheat on my wife, and I wouldn't ever even consider doing anything like Online-"sex". However simple flirting isn't a problem.
I recognize that this isn't true for lots of people, but I think as I said that this has more to do with their lack of clear boundries and a strong commitment to this existing relationship.
Hell, there's plenty of that going on here on the net with the few female posters we have here. I thin Phil (under the watchful eye of Pink) was the biggest flirt on the net. That says a lot about their relationship, IMO.
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