someone post a "when do I have a talk with a child's parent" thread.
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If' I've learned anything from youth sports it's that people are ****ing crazy. I've seen worse than Pete. I've seen coaches not put 7 and 8 year old kids into games at all for the sake of winning a 3 dollar medal. It's easier said than done but until about 12 make sure the kid is having fun and make sure he is in playing the ****ing game not sitting on the bench "because he has to earn" a spot. They still believes in Santa for ****s sake. Just insane.
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The problem is when the two worlds collide. The competitive (good) kids want to win or be as competitive as they can be. Then there are the kids that just want “have fun” or join sports to hang with their friends, or because mom and dad made them. As a coach, you have to balance the bottom of the roster kids with the “I just want to win” kids. As a parent, I have two of the latter and one of the “I’m here to have fun” kids. As a coach, I think I’ve done a good job of balancing. But I get both sides of the coin. The kids toward the bottom of the roster (and especially their parents) get frustrated when they don’t play, if get as involved as much as the best kids. The competitive kids get frustrated when they see the crappy kids blowing games, etc. Again, their point of view counts too. It’s not just about making the bottom kids feel good. Some 8 year olds are dreaming about Pokémon during the game. Some are literally obsessed with sports and come home from games and watch highlights on YouTube because it’s what they love. Others want to be pros, but have no clue how bad their genetics are holding them back. The Pokémon kids wash out sometime between 8-10. The kids that love it but don’t know how bad their genetics are, hang on a lot longer, and sometimes they work themselves into relevancy. The competitive kids usually stick with the 2-3 sports their best at and are usually the kids that end up being varsity starters, and some go past high school. Of course there are examples of competitive kids that fizzle out, or peak early. And there are examples of kids that weren’t anything special and hit a growth spurt. But 90% of the time, you can predict who the players are by 8-10 years old. The only question is usually which sport will be their best/favorite. It is what it is. Sports is the one area where kids are allowed to set their own hierarchy based on their abilities, and don’t have to worry about “making sure everyone feels included”. |
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Yep, I get both angles for sure. The thing is if it's your kid then don't bitch about coaching and just put him in a better situation where he gets to play and perhaps be a bigger part of the team. But like i said on the other hand I've seen enough over the course of my life time you can still get lower level kids involved in certain situations and probably more frequently than what they do. I'd probably put your 90% number a little lower as in it's my experience the shorter kids tend to be more coordinated and athletic early on where as the taller kids take a bit longer but usually pass up those early bloomers by 13-14 or so. |
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Genetics are a hell of a thing. |
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If you look at MLB baseball players, 80% of them are about 6'1" +/- one inch, with different positions being slightly taller or shorter. It's crazy how many of them are within a 2" range though. Soccer makes sense because the taller you get, you start to shift the center of gravity too high, which takes away the nimbleness of their feet. But on the flip side, if you're too short, it's generally harder to cover the distance needed. As far as speed, every thing is position specific. But all other things being equal, a mid-fielder with higher top end speed will out perform a slower mid-fielder. Even with the endurance that is required... a guy who's top end speed is 23 mph will be faster running at 85% than a player player who's top end speed is 21 mph running at 90%. Even for OL in football, 40 times correlate to career success and even longevity. That's why the 40 is and always will be the thing that is emphasized the most at combines. |
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I'm not going to dredge through the entire thread, I read the first couple pages...
Yes, I'd meet with the coach in a setting away from the team and my son. I'd most definitely remind him he's coaching 8-year-old kids. Skill really doesn't matter at all at that point, let's be honest as **** about that. All those kids are there to learn the game and all should get equal playing time, regardless of ability. You coach up the lesser players and around their shortcomings, not exclude them. You have a slower, less-skilled player on the field? Pair him with a faster, more-skilled player. Don't play two lesser-skilled players for 10 minutes and two higher-skilled players for 40. That's not helping these kids. Even if these kids never amount to shit in their teenage years and make traveling teams, at least they are learning the game and may appreciate it and even coach it later in life. Plus, that slow kid now could end up the fastest kid in two years. As for the awards, they shouldn't even be allowed by the parents of the league except for a year-end participation medal or something. No trophies and no atta-boy merits. Eight years old. It's simple, really. It's not about winning at 8. Hell, little league teams at that age hardly keep score. This coach is a jackass, really. |
Pete you kicked the shit out of this coach yet or are you a beta like Clay
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