Home Discord Chat
Go Back   ChiefsPlanet > Hall of Classics
Reload this Page Caught my woman cheating.
Register FAQDonate Members List Calendar

Reply
Page 9 of 30 « First 5678 9 1011121319 Last »
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 02-14-2016, 08:32 AM   #2
dmahurin dmahurin is offline
Veteran
 
dmahurin's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
I have 2 boys and my now ex cheated on me in a similar fashion. It sucks right now for you. I know. But I promise you life will be a whole better in the long run. Ive been divorced 6 years and am so much happier now than I was then. Focus on your child and yourself. Her wants are completely irrelevent to you anymore.
Posts: 2,146
dmahurin threw an interception on a screen pass.dmahurin threw an interception on a screen pass.dmahurin threw an interception on a screen pass.dmahurin threw an interception on a screen pass.dmahurin threw an interception on a screen pass.dmahurin threw an interception on a screen pass.dmahurin threw an interception on a screen pass.dmahurin threw an interception on a screen pass.dmahurin threw an interception on a screen pass.dmahurin threw an interception on a screen pass.dmahurin threw an interception on a screen pass.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 08:33 AM   #3
MikeMaslowski MikeMaslowski is offline
There's always next year.
 
MikeMaslowski's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
That is no good tribe. As many others, I have been there and we ALL have come out on the other side. Will hurt but never think it is the bottom. If you get some weird feelings, make sure to call family and friends. Your life is important to you and your child, even if it isn't to that sorry sack you were with. Keep your head up and you will get hella sympathy lays in the near future. lol
Posts: 2,219
MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 08:37 AM   #4
kccrow kccrow is offline
MVP
 
kccrow's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: Michigan
Sorry to hear it bud. This is certainly a tough deal. The whole ex-boyfriend thing certainly means there's likely some sort of emotional attachment deep down for her and that makes it a bit tougher.

In relationships, there always seems to be that "7 year itch" as they call it. I'm married, we've been together over 10 years. We both went through it. Things settle in, people get complacent, and life is rather boring. It happens. Don't blame yourself though, she made her decision.

I'd want to know more. How was it that she was in contact with him after all this time to begin with? Was it a one night thing? Was it an affair? Does it matter? Most of all, could you forgive her depending on that answer? And with that, would you ever be able to trust her again if you did?

I think taking time apart to find answers is important. You have a child together and that child's long-term welfare will depend on both of you. Figure out how the both of you will move forward from this.

First instinct is to beat the guy within an inch of his life and risk spending 30+ days in the slammer, but that doesn't help your kid. Be strong. You've had your drink.
Posts: 12,675
kccrow 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.kccrow 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.kccrow 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.kccrow 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.kccrow 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.kccrow 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.kccrow 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.kccrow 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.kccrow 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.kccrow 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.kccrow 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 08:43 AM   #5
FlaChief58 FlaChief58 is offline
SuperChiefs
 
FlaChief58's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Florida
Sorry to hear that, I've been there. Just remember that it wouldn't have happened if SHE didn't want it too. Best to cut ties now, because if you forgive her now, she'll know you'll forgive her the next time. And there will be a next time
Posts: 18,985
FlaChief58 is obviously part of the inner Circle.FlaChief58 is obviously part of the inner Circle.FlaChief58 is obviously part of the inner Circle.FlaChief58 is obviously part of the inner Circle.FlaChief58 is obviously part of the inner Circle.FlaChief58 is obviously part of the inner Circle.FlaChief58 is obviously part of the inner Circle.FlaChief58 is obviously part of the inner Circle.FlaChief58 is obviously part of the inner Circle.FlaChief58 is obviously part of the inner Circle.FlaChief58 is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 08:46 AM   #6
MikeMaslowski MikeMaslowski is offline
There's always next year.
 
MikeMaslowski's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
And remember, CHEATING IS NOT EVER EVER EVER YOUR FAULT. DO NOT ACCEPT HER BACK OR YOU WILL BE MISERABLE. Every time she looks at her phone or steps out the door you will get a knot in your stomach. Best to let it go.
Posts: 2,219
MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.MikeMaslowski would the whole thing.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 08:46 AM   #7
Msmith Msmith is offline
Veteran
 
Join Date: Jan 2004
Just for the safe side, check with the clinic if you may contact some STD.
Posts: 1,999
Msmith has just been standing around suckin' on a big ol' chili dog.Msmith has just been standing around suckin' on a big ol' chili dog.Msmith has just been standing around suckin' on a big ol' chili dog.Msmith has just been standing around suckin' on a big ol' chili dog.Msmith has just been standing around suckin' on a big ol' chili dog.Msmith has just been standing around suckin' on a big ol' chili dog.Msmith has just been standing around suckin' on a big ol' chili dog.Msmith has just been standing around suckin' on a big ol' chili dog.Msmith has just been standing around suckin' on a big ol' chili dog.Msmith has just been standing around suckin' on a big ol' chili dog.Msmith has just been standing around suckin' on a big ol' chili dog.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 09:15 AM   #8
Sully Sully is offline
It Goes On
 
Sully's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Lees Summit
Prayers for you and your family.

No impulse decisions.

Take no advice (even mine), other than to do what is best and works for you and your family.

Always reach for grace.
Posts: 18,295
Sully threw an interception on a screen pass.Sully threw an interception on a screen pass.Sully threw an interception on a screen pass.Sully threw an interception on a screen pass.Sully threw an interception on a screen pass.Sully threw an interception on a screen pass.Sully threw an interception on a screen pass.Sully threw an interception on a screen pass.Sully threw an interception on a screen pass.Sully threw an interception on a screen pass.Sully threw an interception on a screen pass.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 11:53 AM   #9
rabblerouser rabblerouser is offline
left blank intentionally
 
rabblerouser's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Belize Nuts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Sully View Post
Prayers for you and your family.

No impulse decisions.

Take no advice (even mine), other than to do what is best and works for you and your family.

Always reach for grace.
This^

1000x this.


Sorry to hear about your fambly troubles, tribe.
Posts: 32,166
rabblerouser is obviously part of the inner Circle.rabblerouser is obviously part of the inner Circle.rabblerouser is obviously part of the inner Circle.rabblerouser is obviously part of the inner Circle.rabblerouser is obviously part of the inner Circle.rabblerouser is obviously part of the inner Circle.rabblerouser is obviously part of the inner Circle.rabblerouser is obviously part of the inner Circle.rabblerouser is obviously part of the inner Circle.rabblerouser is obviously part of the inner Circle.rabblerouser is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 09:17 AM   #10
Shaid Shaid is offline
Supporter
 
Shaid's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
It's tempting to give advise here but only you know the full details involved. I'll just say, be strong, be a man, and be a good father to your child no matter what the relationship between you and your wife.
Posts: 5,690
Shaid is obviously part of the inner Circle.Shaid is obviously part of the inner Circle.Shaid is obviously part of the inner Circle.Shaid is obviously part of the inner Circle.Shaid is obviously part of the inner Circle.Shaid is obviously part of the inner Circle.Shaid is obviously part of the inner Circle.Shaid is obviously part of the inner Circle.Shaid is obviously part of the inner Circle.Shaid is obviously part of the inner Circle.Shaid is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 09:55 AM   #11
scho63 scho63 is offline
Politically Incorrect
 
scho63's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
Don't do anything that ruins the rest of your life! Nothing worth that no matter how hurt or angry.....

I actually think women are cheating more today then most guys.
Posts: 50,616
scho63 is obviously part of the inner Circle.scho63 is obviously part of the inner Circle.scho63 is obviously part of the inner Circle.scho63 is obviously part of the inner Circle.scho63 is obviously part of the inner Circle.scho63 is obviously part of the inner Circle.scho63 is obviously part of the inner Circle.scho63 is obviously part of the inner Circle.scho63 is obviously part of the inner Circle.scho63 is obviously part of the inner Circle.scho63 is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 10:01 AM   #12
BucEyedPea BucEyedPea is offline
Gimme My Berries Back!
 
BucEyedPea's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: None of your business
Quote:
Originally Posted by scho63 View Post
Don't do anything that ruins the rest of your life! Nothing worth that no matter how hurt or angry.....

I actually think women are cheating more today then most guys.
My gender has certainly caught up with the percentage of men that do...last survey I read.
Posts: 161,924
BucEyedPea is obviously part of the inner Circle.BucEyedPea is obviously part of the inner Circle.BucEyedPea is obviously part of the inner Circle.BucEyedPea is obviously part of the inner Circle.BucEyedPea is obviously part of the inner Circle.BucEyedPea is obviously part of the inner Circle.BucEyedPea is obviously part of the inner Circle.BucEyedPea is obviously part of the inner Circle.BucEyedPea is obviously part of the inner Circle.BucEyedPea is obviously part of the inner Circle.BucEyedPea is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 10:14 AM   #13
stevieray stevieray is offline
best in the biz
 
stevieray's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Under Pressure
This sounds harsh, but don't waste your time and energy on thinking about her..guarantee she isn't.

She's the one who has to live with it..You're the one who needs to live without it.

Stay strong, brother.
Posts: 71,265
stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 10:16 AM   #14
Tacoman Tacoman is offline
Starter
 
Tacoman's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2013
Location: Utah
Really sorry to hear this BT, I've never been through it so I don't know what advice is best other than that your child will always be more important than your wife. Right now you probably have a lot of standing in the custody situation due to her negligence, keep it that way by acting proper and you will get the most time with your child.

Stay strong bud.
Posts: 418
Tacoman would the whole thing.Tacoman would the whole thing.Tacoman would the whole thing.Tacoman would the whole thing.Tacoman would the whole thing.Tacoman would the whole thing.Tacoman would the whole thing.Tacoman would the whole thing.Tacoman would the whole thing.Tacoman would the whole thing.Tacoman would the whole thing.
     Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2016, 02:28 PM   #15
Mosbonian Mosbonian is offline
On Hiatus
 
Join Date: Aug 2000
Quote:
Originally Posted by Tacoman View Post
Right now you probably have a lot of standing in the custody situation due to her negligence.....
Not as much as you think....you would be surprised how the courts defer to the Mother unless there are dire circumstances that point to the welfare of the child.

Being unfaithful doesn't always equal immediate custody.
Posts: 11,281
Mosbonian is too fat/Omaha.Mosbonian is too fat/Omaha.Mosbonian is too fat/Omaha.Mosbonian is too fat/Omaha.Mosbonian is too fat/Omaha.Mosbonian is too fat/Omaha.Mosbonian is too fat/Omaha.Mosbonian is too fat/Omaha.Mosbonian is too fat/Omaha.Mosbonian is too fat/Omaha.Mosbonian is too fat/Omaha.
     Reply With Quote
Reply
Page 9 of 30 « First 5678 9 1011121319 Last »

« Previous Thread | > Hall of Classics < | Next Thread »

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Forum Jump




All times are GMT -6. The time now is 10:56 PM.

Contact Us - ChiefsPlanet - Archive - Top

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.8
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.