Caught my woman cheating.

[Saccopoo]

Originally Posted by 88TG88

Went through a similar situation not too long ago, why are women such whores

Most likely, because people become complacent in relationships and people become bored with what has become the mundane.

As well, most humans aren't monogamous anyway. I was watching some study on it and only about 20% of people exhibit the "monogamous" gene when they meet the right "someone." In addition, the production of oxytocin is a limited thing and usually lasts up to only six months on the outside. It can be triggered by another person but your shit got old.

So, women are whores because you got lazy and boring and weren't all that sexy after the initial spark wore off.

She ain't gonna stick around just because you are you. There's always going to be a younger, stronger lion that wants to plant it's seed in that shit.

As Britney says, you want a Bugatti? You want a chick that's a hot body? You better work bitch.

[keg in kc]

So sorry to hear. A lot of us have been there.

Whatever issues you may have in the relationship, her cheating is not your fault. This is something she did, a choice she made. You're the victim here. Don't look for reasons to feel guilty or for things you could have done to prevent it. There aren't any.

Just a personal opinion here, but this is something where there's no second chance. You need to move on. It's tough but the only real option long-term. Trust has been broken, and most likely more than the one time you know about.