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02-15-2016, 07:23 AM | #3 | |
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Wake up to reality, asshole. |
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02-15-2016, 07:38 AM | #4 |
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02-15-2016, 07:52 AM | #5 | |
pie is never free
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As you say... both sides need to be on board, but it happens frequently I definitely do not agree with "once a cheater, always a cheater"... my ex and I both cheated on each other, and if I am ever lucky enough to find the right girl again, I'll chop off my junk before risking our love for some cheap, fleeting sex |
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02-15-2016, 09:00 AM | #6 | |
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I would lose all trust. |
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02-15-2016, 09:32 AM | #7 | |
I'm with the banned.
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02-15-2016, 09:38 AM | #8 | |
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02-15-2016, 11:29 AM | #9 |
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02-15-2016, 09:46 AM | #10 | |
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And now, we're friends again, my girlfriend and my ex are friends, and most of all, our BS doesn't get in the way of doing the right things for our kid. Forgiveness is everything. But I could never actually go back to being in an intimate relationship with my ex- she hurt me too much for any possibility of that ever again. It's okay, I understand and I forgive her... but I could never put myself in that situation again. Probably never get married again. And that's okay. |
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02-15-2016, 09:51 AM | #11 | |
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02-15-2016, 09:54 AM | #12 |
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02-15-2016, 10:01 AM | #13 | |
SuperBowl or bust
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You're a good guy, not every woman is untrustworthy. |
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02-15-2016, 09:52 AM | #14 | |
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Forgiveness allows this. There is no timetable for forgiveness. But often if you don't, it will do more harm to yourself. My Wife cheated on me. We got divorced and it ate the hell outa me. I was mad and in the long run the anger was hurting me. I forgave her, and moved on. Today we have a great relationship. We are family. Once you have children together, like it or not, you are family. I know because of this past I became a better man. Wishing you the best. |
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02-15-2016, 12:25 PM | #15 | |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
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My son comes first. Making his mother, whom I love, my enemy will not create anything positive for anyone involved. We've talked about what needs to be done. We are getting along and moving things forward. It's going to be a big change. I've never been away from my son. I don't know how it will be good for either us. I'm kinda his window to the world. She has no idea what she's in for with me not around all the time. I worry for them both. I love them both. I will miss them both. |
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