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#121 |
Admitted Planet Junky
Join Date: Oct 2000
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You ever heard of killing someone with kindness???
Ask your neighbor over for dinner. Let them see what thier light is doing to thier neighbor that was nice enough to ask them over for dinner so that there would be no word fighting over it back and forth just simply adding fuel to a fire. During the dinner and conversation you can let them know that it has been bothering you for a while by letting them know that you have been looking for options to help the situation including spending $500 on a tree. Ask them for thier help to fix this situation. Then if all else fails you let them know that while you have been trying to find a peaceful and easy solution you have also found that it is against a city ordinance and you can go that way if you are forced to take that road but you would rather not. |
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#122 |
FINALLY! The wait is over.
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: The Future Is Now!!!
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Really? I ever see a house go on the market in my neighborhood I'll let you know. You'd be a good neighbor.
Have you gone over there and splained' the sitchiation to em? They're about to be cited by the city, so you've obviously won this war. Let them know your conditions for surrender. If they're good with it, great. If not, take no prisoners. Last edited by Mr. Flopnuts; 01-09-2009 at 08:13 PM.. |
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#123 |
FINALLY! The wait is over.
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: The Future Is Now!!!
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#124 | |
The 23rd Pillar
Join Date: Sep 2002
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#125 |
Box of Rocks
Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Joplin Missouri
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I would suggest that you take them to court. Im guessing that they are not stupid and they know how bright the light is. They have just chosen to infringe on your rights as a neighbor and not respecting the fact that they live in a city. Owning a home in the city affords you certain rights and responsibilities and thankfully your city has a code dealing with Light Trespass.
I know what your going through. We have been having the same type of issue with a neighbor since August of last year. Done the whole talk to him thing (twice) and then had my attorney draft a formal letter asking that the lights be changed. We then found out that our city has no code dealing with Light Trespass. So you have that going for you and would go with it. |
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#126 | |
Quit your bullshit
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Bored of winning
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Why would anyone bother talking rationally to a neighbor first? A conversation? Eff that noise! That's a bunch of hippie bullshit. Burn his house to the ground and piss on the ashes. How dare someone put up a light and not take it down even though nobody has ever asked him to? This is an outrage! |
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#127 | |
Say hello to my little friend
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Larryville
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#128 |
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Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Utopia
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It sounds like Mecca is destined for a lifetime in his mother's basement too. Its not his fault, its just the only place he can sleep properly, when he's not up all night playing WoW and practicing nun chucks.
Reading some of the responses in threads like these clarify to me further why I believe its better to live in a small community. Some of you have no concept of being a neighbor. |
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#129 |
Right in the Lumberyard Danny
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: LaPlata, MO
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#130 |
Playing for #1 Draft Pick
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Just West of Lambs land
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#131 |
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Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Olathe, Ks
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**** that. Why should I not be able to enjoy sitting on my deck? And we do have curtains. But I don't want to keep my house closed up all the time. I aksed him if he could wait until 10:00..which involves me closing my CURTAINS in my bedroom. I think that is more than reasonable.
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#132 |
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Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Olathe, Ks
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#133 |
Playing for #1 Draft Pick
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Just West of Lambs land
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if your at this point. next step is cops knocking on his door.
that might get his attention. Court should be that guys last option. Depending on how the ordinance is written he will likely lose. Pay fine, smaller pole, dimmer bulb.... your tree? doubt it. |
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#134 |
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Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Olathe, Ks
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He turned it off last night. I am waiting to see how long this will last. I genuinely feel bad about it but **** it, he shoul dnever of put in such a bright light in the first palce.
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#135 |
11-5, baby
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Livin the dream
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This was the first time you saw the guy? Really? It's more likely that you had seen him before, hence your indirect ($500 tree, contacting city attorneys) conflict methods.
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