Insult or Compliment?

[staylor26]

This post has been breaking the internet.

Most women understand the woman’s side.
Most men understand the men’s side.

What do y’all think? pic.twitter.com/JKb1D9b6BW

— Hazel Appleyard (@HazelAppleyard_) August 11, 2024

I personally don't understand how this isn't clearly an insult.

[KCUnited]

When you get done ****ing someone for like the 5th time and you're like "we should grab dinner sometime" and you get that genuine laugh from her at the thought of being out with you

That stings a little, especially when you're late 20s, so you start looking for a higher paying job

[Bearcat]

Originally Posted by wazu

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyCh...hip_trying_to/

Yeah, scanning through the reddit responses it looks near 100% agreement that this is unequivocally a pretty colossal insult. Chiefsplanet responses are way, way more on the side of the girlfriend. We are a sweet and sensitive bunch.

Reddit and Twitter have as many decades of youth on CP than scho has in IT.

[Katipan]

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You soft little snuggle bugs think she was talking about how he looks?

I don’t have proof but I seriously doubt it.

[Katipan]

Originally Posted by KCUnited

When you get done ****ing someone for like the 5th time and you're like "we should grab dinner sometime" and you get that genuine laugh from her at the thought of being out with you

That stings a little, especially when you're late 20s, so you start looking for a higher paying job

I had a conversation with 2 pilots who explained to me that usually only nurses and teachers have the intestinal fortitude or patience to marry the grown man-children we call professional pilots.

[kepp]

I don't know if he took it as either. I'm thinking he started to see that the woman wasn't who HE should marry.

[crayzkirk]

Originally Posted by Katipan

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You soft little snuggle bugs think she was talking about how he looks?

I don’t have proof but I seriously doubt it.

Are you suggesting that he is throwing a hotdog down a hallway?

[Bearcat]

Originally Posted by RunKC

I looked at the post on Reddit and that user didn’t have any comments or other posts, so just like most Twitter/Reddit stories, there’s very little context to gain from this.

Can only gather that she’s been with him for 2.5 years, was drunk, tried to explain her real intentions and he acted like a woman by going away to cry about something that wasn’t real.

While the guy is pouting, he should actually think about it and understand that this woman already hooked up with him and ****ed him 2.5 years ago and liked him so much that she actually wants to be with him and told him she wants to marry him.

When you get past 30, there is nothing worse in the dating world than being a hookup or fwb. It means you are a rebound for a sad divorced woman or a woman who has red flags for being so old and not wanting to actually be with you.

I always sort threads like that in Q&A and it's always a bit disappointing when they don't answer anyone.... it really comes off as fake that someone would somehow feel so strongly about "destroying a relationship" and then not even stick around to get all defensive about it and detail the later conversations.

This thread is amusing reading all of the made up context just so people have something to be offended by.... hell, ask people here and thus is the first time that couple had sex.

[ToxSocks]

It was a compliment, but because homie was drunk and in his feelings he took it as an insult, took it to understand it as he wasn't attractive in a ****able one night stand sort of way.

That's an insecurity problem on his behalf.

Look, all men don't drop panties the same way. Just like we see women on a spectrum of hotness, women see men on a spectrum of hotness too.

Look bro, you aint Zac Efron (or whoever chicks are into these days). But she likes you and will still suck your dick.

So why you running out the house like a little bitch about it? Homie can't handle is liquor.

[Discuss Thrower]

OP's boyfriend doesn't have something random hook-ups had that she found attractive.

Could be they're better looking, or ****ed better, or were more exciting. Take your pick; the end result is the same.

[ToxSocks]

Oh, and we don't know what kinda chick this is. Im guessing that she sees someone you marry as something greater than something you just ****.

Like, hey, i'd marry you because i think you're awesome AND I'd ****, rather than another guy who she doesn't value as more than just a lay.

So again, this is his own insecurity.

[ThrobProng]

She basically told him she's settling.

[Sassy Squatch]

'not someone I'd hookup or be FWBs with' was ****ing idiotic to say. Full stop. There are plenty of ways to tell someone you want to spend the rest of your life with them without needlessly emasculating them.

[ToxSocks]

Everyone is assuming she see's the guy you marry as less than the guy you ****.

That's because we're men, that's how we view shit.

But i think in traditional women world, they value the guy they marry because they can **** AND they provide whatever other value the woman sees in him.

Unless of course we're talking about a skonka, which changes the context of the situation.

[Katipan]

Originally Posted by ToxSocks

Oh, and we don't know what kinda chick this is. Im guessing that she sees someone you marry as something greater than something you just ****.

Like, hey, i'd marry you because i think you're awesome AND I'd ****, rather than another guy who she doesn't value as more than just a lay.

So again, this is his own insecurity.

I think it’s cuz we’re from the streets.

[Sassy Squatch]

And yeah, the fact that from her own admission all her friends aren't on her side on this speaks volumes.