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Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: OP/KC/Whatever
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#107 |
Veteran
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Denver, CO. USA
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I would never go out with a girl that my wife is not familiar or comfortable with because I respect her. In turn she wouldn't do the the same to me. That is how a successful relationship works. If she can't respect you that way then maybe she isn't the right one for you. There are plenty of nice young ladies out there that are ready for a real relationship if she is not.
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#108 |
Stay positive, don't give up
Join Date: Dec 2001
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#109 |
Supporter
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: On a yellow brick road.
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#110 |
Shit
Join Date: Jun 2008
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Maybe she thinks that albert IS going to be a GREAT LT and doesnt agree he should/could be moved, she understands that he will leave for the money if we make him a RT.
sorry man had to do it, on a real note RUN get the **** away from this girl. |
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#111 |
Who's your daddy?
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Junction City
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Been there done that not pretty! It's the curb for her!!!
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Join Date: Jun 2008
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#113 |
Stay positive, don't give up
Join Date: Dec 2001
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#114 |
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Scott City KS
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#115 |
Stay positive, don't give up
Join Date: Dec 2001
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#116 | |
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: The Crazys of Montana
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#117 | |
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Harrisburg, PA
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Girls/Guys nights out are one thing. This is another. She is going out with another guy, even if it IS in a group setting, she is checking the stock, flirting and trying to test the waters of singlehood. As soon as she has hooked another guy, you are going to get hurt. Cut bait and run. You'll come out feeling better about yourself. She is in no way shape or form ready to move in with you. All the psychobabble bullsh*t about feeling smoothered and wanting "her own time" is lipservice to justify it. |
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#118 | |
Administrator
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Austin
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You can confront her and hope it works out... but odds are... you do NOT want to continue on with her. Easier said than done... but best advice is to cut ties as soon as you feel you can. Sorry for being so harsh, but the fact is.. I know this situation and you need to be very careful about making excuses for her. It is an easy trap to fall into. |
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#119 |
Stuff & Things
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: The Yukon
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#120 |
Starter
Join Date: Dec 2005
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Could not agree more with everything that has been said by you guys. The only way something like this would be permissible in my books is if she were going with a long-time friend who I also knew. In that case, it would be different. But some dude from the bar who is clearly trying to dart her mitt??? No fing way.
That said, you've got a golden opportunity here. You essentially know that this is prolly not someone you want to be serious with (unless there is some remarkable explanation for this type of behavior that I cannot think of) and you need to take advantage of that fact. You need to to anything and everything that you've ever wanted (anal, on a pool table, underwater, alligator **** house, etc). Really push the envelope with things, and see what kind of crazy shit you can do. Basically, do all the things you would not want to do to someone you care about. If she gets offended, who cares, you're not serious anyway. Once you've exhausted all possible ideas, cut her loose. |
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