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Old 10-02-2024, 12:05 AM  
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Lost my oldest son this weekend
I lost my oldest son this weekend. I have 5 kids and my oldest son, 22 years old, lost his multi year battle to depression this weekend.

I've been a long time CP member and while I don't post a lot, I've been here for a long time.

I post here for a simple reason... Love those in your life that you have the opportunity to love. Whether it is you kid, parent, sibling or close friend. Love them.

I never missed the opportunity to tell my son he was loved, hugging him and having part of our regular life. But from here on out, I will never have that opportunity again.

He leaves behind 4 siblings who are wrecked by this - brothers aged 20, 15 & 13, and a sister who adored him age 10.

We all will get through this, but I can attest that the pain that is felt through this has no words in any language that accurately depict the pain.

Love your people, always.
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Old 10-02-2024, 08:55 AM   #61
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Hugs. I can't even fathom...
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Old 10-02-2024, 09:00 AM   #62
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Absolutely devastating. Love you brother.
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Old 10-02-2024, 09:03 AM   #63
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That is tragic. My condolences to you and your family. I can’t imagine the pain.
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Old 10-02-2024, 09:10 AM   #64
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I'm sorry. We're all here for you.
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Old 10-02-2024, 09:11 AM   #65
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Old 10-02-2024, 09:20 AM   #66
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I can’t even imagine what you all are going through. God bless you and your family. I will keep you in my prayers.
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Old 10-02-2024, 09:43 AM   #67
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tragic. I'm sorry for your loss, Dave
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Old 10-02-2024, 09:43 AM   #68
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Goddamn. I’m so sorry man. I can’t even imagine. My kids are 6 and 10 I can’t even pretend to put myself in that headspace.

One thing I know for sure is you can’t apply logic to legitimate psychological conditions. They aren’t operating under the conditions of logic. It gets lost somewhere in there and they can’t see the world objectively. Accordingly you can’t feel responsible for it.

You need something reach out.
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Old 10-02-2024, 09:47 AM   #69
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Dave, I'm so sorry for the loss of your oldest son. May you and your family find comfort in being together.
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Old 10-02-2024, 10:22 AM   #70
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That’s a terrible thing for your family to deal with. There are no anecdotes to offer that will help, I can’t imagine.

My condolences on your loss
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Old 10-02-2024, 10:29 AM   #71
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Condolences, Dave. Very sorry for your loss.
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Old 10-02-2024, 10:32 AM   #72
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I am so sorry. I have a family member that has struggled with some of these issues, and I hope never to know what it’s like. I think out of my 300 Facebook friends, about a half-dozen or so have committed suicide. I wish I had the answers. I’ll be thinking about you and your family.
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Old 10-02-2024, 10:34 AM   #73
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God bless you, your family, and especially your eldest child.
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Old 10-02-2024, 11:09 AM   #74
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Tragic. Take solace in each other.

So sorry for your loss.
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Old 10-02-2024, 11:23 AM   #75
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sorry to hear this. prayers sent.
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