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07-09-2015, 09:37 AM | #3286 |
Inmem 2.0
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: My house
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Plow any chicks recently Dave?
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07-09-2015, 09:47 AM | #3287 | |
Starter
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Grandma's House
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Some of the points may have been over the top (especially the touching stuff), but the overall point seems to be “have a plan, get to know your date, and have fun” |
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07-09-2015, 10:32 AM | #3288 |
You think you can get by this?
Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Springfield, MO
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Wow. There is no set way to have a successful date. You be you. She'll be her. If you're into each other, things will progress just fine. Sure, have an idea of some topics to talk about or questions to ask, but, again, if you're into each other, the conversation will also move along just fine. You shouldn't have to force a conversation. You also should have preconceived ideas about how to be able to touch her. As far as taking control. Don't grab her hand and say let's go. Ask her if she'd like to go, and then just go.
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07-09-2015, 11:19 AM | #3289 |
MER
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Location: Colorado
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07-09-2015, 11:26 AM | #3290 |
"You like to drink?"
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: "I like to drink."
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Sooooo I'm sure I can scratch together two commas worth of coin...
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07-09-2015, 02:51 PM | #3291 |
Like I woke up in Wonderland..
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: KCMO
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I think you are taking it too literally. I interpreted it as to know what you want and act in a confident way (i.e. don't be an indecisive p^ssy), not to order them around or be dismissive of their desires.
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07-09-2015, 03:00 PM | #3292 |
I'll be back.
Join Date: Nov 2002
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I've literally determined seating arrangements for every date I've ever been on.
I don't see it as a big deal. And if you sit around and waffle about where to sit you're gonna come off as pretty indecisive. Huge turn off. Even a forever alone nimrod like yours truly has that down. Sheesh. |
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07-09-2015, 03:50 PM | #3293 | |
MER
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Colorado
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Taking my hand and saying "let's go" IS dismissive of how I feel. Maybe an attempt at being cute when you know me. On a first date, you'd get stubborn resistance, or askance curiosity. |
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07-09-2015, 03:52 PM | #3294 |
MER
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07-09-2015, 03:54 PM | #3295 |
"You like to drink?"
Join Date: Jun 2006
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07-09-2015, 05:05 PM | #3296 |
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Join Date: Nov 2001
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Even for this thread, this is a pretty creepy discussion. Who cares who sits where on a date? Asking for a hug? This all sounds like creep central. You're trying to meet a person, not play a video game.
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07-09-2015, 05:09 PM | #3297 | |
Grand champ
Join Date: Sep 2007
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Agreed. It doesn't sound at all like a guy that's trying to meet someone he has a real connection with but instead finding a way to bang every chick on the first date. |
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07-09-2015, 05:19 PM | #3298 |
Banned
Join Date: Jan 2013
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I'm happy hanging out with eDave, his bong, and his craft for a bit and getting back to my center again. Then hanging with that for a bit too.
Hope things are going well with the current lady. Last edited by eDave; 07-09-2015 at 05:32 PM.. |
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07-09-2015, 09:58 PM | #3299 | |
C Chiefs once a year!
Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: Cali
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Online dating has been a great exp for me. My married buddy said he imagines it's like rolling up to a drive-through and placing an order lol. |
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07-10-2015, 12:49 AM | #3300 |
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