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#301 |
MY LITTLE #15
Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Springfield, MO
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#302 |
Starter
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Grandma's House
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It depends on the cause - you, or her.
In my most recent experience, the things I did at the beginning played a large role in the way she thought of me throughout the relationship. I was young and stupid. Live and learn I guess. |
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#303 | |
C Chiefs once a year!
Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: Cali
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I've seen your picture and it's not your looks that turn guys away. Positive Attitude and confidence will attract guys! |
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Posts: 7,701
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#304 |
I'll be back.
Join Date: Nov 2002
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I had been using OKC for just over a year and I had maybe 10 replies to my starting message, 3 of which developed into longer conversations that seemed to trickle off. then just out of the blue one day I get a message from a girl. SHE SENT THE FIRST MESSAGE! I didn't even know this was possible!
We got to talking without wasting any time, the messages were coming in every day. After 3 days of messages I ask her out for coffee. She said she wanted to get to know me better first and she gave me her phone number, the first number I have acquired in my life (now 27 yrs old). Ding! achievement unlocked! We texted back and forth rapidly for about one month, sometimes multiple times a day. She was exactly the kind of person I wanted to date: Kind, Honest, caring, very positive, no games, she even looked pretty good and she had a job and a car. For someone like me who has limited interaction with people due to crippling shyness this was a major step forward. It was so nice having someone to talk to about every little thing. I feel that it really helped me develop my conversation skills. I felt an intense energy boost every day just thinking about her. I could think faster, my workouts were much more intense, it made me feel really confident too. After a month of texting I decided to ask her out again but she decided to break it off. Maybe my timing was bad but I am still learning. She was really nice about it though and didn't leave me hanging. I can't imagine what it will be like to have a real relationship with dating and possibly intimacy too. I now know that its a definite possibility on OKC even for shy guys like me. Don't give up hope guys. Send a thousand messages without replys, spend two hundred hours writing them. That one special lady is waiting just around the corner I just know it! |
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#305 |
Consuming CP souls
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: U.S.A.
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So glad I am off those sites. Jfc the bat shit crazy to deal with. Guys like that are hopeless though.
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#306 | |
¡RIOS MIO!
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Minneapolis
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#307 |
Resident Glue Sniffer
Join Date: Nov 2003
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So glad I'm at a point where dating is a moot point. I don't envy the single folks looking to actively daye.
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#308 | |
Blame it on the Henne
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Donk-town
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#309 |
Beloved & Awesome CP Celebrity
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Florida
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8 months today.
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#310 | |
Banned
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: My house
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#311 |
Life is changing..
Join Date: Jul 2012
Location: NW Missouri
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#312 |
Life is changing..
Join Date: Jul 2012
Location: NW Missouri
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#313 |
"You like to drink?"
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: "I like to drink."
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Online dating is the relationship equivalent to trying to hit a 16 NFL game parlay.
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#314 |
Banned
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: My house
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#315 |
Beloved & Awesome CP Celebrity
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Florida
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