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09-12-2014, 06:52 PM | #286 |
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09-12-2014, 06:55 PM | #287 | |
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My dad went too far with me at times, I have no doubt. But his intent was not evil or ill intended. He probably toned it down a tad from my grandfather etc...who is also my most admired person in the world. I understand times are different than they were when we grew up or our fathers or grandfathers but really, it doesn't appear to be a better world as far as personal responsibility etc....go. |
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09-12-2014, 06:56 PM | #288 |
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My dad beat me so bad when I was 12 that I was put in a 3/4 body cast. The law gave 0 ****s about it.
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09-12-2014, 06:56 PM | #289 |
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Resorting to violence generally means you've lost complete control of a situation. So if you resort to beating your kids as a parenting tool, chances are you had no business being a parent in the first place.
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09-12-2014, 06:57 PM | #290 | |
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09-12-2014, 06:57 PM | #291 |
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My kids won't ever have a chance to be me. Never. Ever.
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09-12-2014, 06:57 PM | #292 | |
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That being said this one incident is not what causes me to think that. Fact is I think he did exactly what was done to him. No more no less. And in this case it's too much but not criminally negligent. |
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09-12-2014, 06:57 PM | #293 |
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The state of the world compared to the good ol' times does not have a direct correlation with the reduction of abuse. This isn't a "spare the rod spoil the child" thing. I personally don't feel like harkening back to a time when it was considered responsible parenting to literally beat the shit out of your child, I don't care how good of a person your grandad turned into.
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09-12-2014, 06:58 PM | #294 |
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09-12-2014, 06:59 PM | #295 | |
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Hell studies say it's counterproductive after a certain age, but young kids respond well to getting spanked Posted via Mobile Device |
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09-12-2014, 06:59 PM | #296 |
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09-12-2014, 07:02 PM | #297 | |
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I believe in spanking a child but the mental stress it causes doesn't even directly link to actual pain. The lesson is learned without actual physical damage. There is zero positive result by elevating a simple spanking to actual abuse. |
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09-12-2014, 07:05 PM | #298 |
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Effective discipline should teach kids new skills, not if you do that again Billy your ass is going to end up red as Rudolph's nose.
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Arrest warrant issued for Vikings RB Adrian Peterson http://www.chron.com/neighborhood/wo...ry-5751666.php An adult that does this to a child, and in this case a 4-year-old child, should be behind bars and barred from being alone with children ever again. I hope the NFL is now starting to take these situations seriously, which results in a permanent ban from the league. |
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09-12-2014, 07:08 PM | #300 |
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