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Old 10-02-2024, 12:05 AM  
Vegas_Dave Vegas_Dave is offline
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Lost my oldest son this weekend

I lost my oldest son this weekend. I have 5 kids and my oldest son, 22 years old, lost his multi year battle to depression this weekend.

I've been a long time CP member and while I don't post a lot, I've been here for a long time.

I post here for a simple reason... Love those in your life that you have the opportunity to love. Whether it is you kid, parent, sibling or close friend. Love them.

I never missed the opportunity to tell my son he was loved, hugging him and having part of our regular life. But from here on out, I will never have that opportunity again.

He leaves behind 4 siblings who are wrecked by this - brothers aged 20, 15 & 13, and a sister who adored him age 10.

We all will get through this, but I can attest that the pain that is felt through this has no words in any language that accurately depict the pain.

Love your people, always.
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Old 10-02-2024, 03:46 AM   #16
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Prayers with you, brother. Lost my son same way 11 days before his 17th birthday. It’s still so fresh even after 14 years, that I still can hardly think about him without bawling my eyes out. Nothing is worse than losing a child. If you even need to talk, please reach out.
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Old 10-02-2024, 03:54 AM   #17
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Truly devastating, very sorry you’re going through this.
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Old 10-02-2024, 04:14 AM   #18
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I'm sorry to hear this.

These threads always make me way more sad now that I am a father too.
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Old 10-02-2024, 04:43 AM   #19
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Man, my heart sunk when I read the title of this thread. Just recently, my oldest (daughter) had a scare in which we thought there was a possibility she may have cancer, so we followed protocol and she got everything checked and we were fortunate enough to have good news… Just a cyst. Scared me to death. I can’t imagine what you are going through. I was personally much more depressed at your sons age than I am now at 41 and when times were stressful back then, the ideation of finding a way to not be here to endure the pain of it would cross my mind. Now 20 years later, I am happy to be here and feel awful for putting my parents through that worry. I truly wish your son could have hung in there a bit to where they eased up, for he may have been the same way. Whatever the case, that’s a nightmare man… I don’t know you, but reading this cut deep and I wish your entire family the best in this terrible situation.
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Old 10-02-2024, 04:44 AM   #20
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Prayers with you, brother. Lost my son same way 11 days before his 17th birthday. It’s still so fresh even after 14 years, that I still can hardly think about him without bawling my eyes out. Nothing is worse than losing a child. If you even need to talk, please reach out.
Omg…
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Old 10-02-2024, 05:04 AM   #21
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Very sorry for your loss, brother. I can only imagine what you and your family are going through…
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Old 10-02-2024, 05:09 AM   #22
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Damn, so very sorry to hear. Prayers for your family, Dave.
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Old 10-02-2024, 05:28 AM   #23
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I'm sorry Dave. I'll be thinking about you and your family.
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Old 10-02-2024, 05:28 AM   #24
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Very sorry to hear Dave. We lost my 19 yo niece a couple years ago and I have no words to help. It just sucks. Remember to love the others because you still have them.
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Old 10-02-2024, 05:30 AM   #25
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Praying for you and your family, Dave.
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Old 10-02-2024, 05:35 AM   #26
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Thank you for the courage to share this reminder. I'm so very sorry. May your family find strength in each other.
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Old 10-02-2024, 05:37 AM   #27
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Vegas Dave… my oldest is 22 as well and I cannot even begin to comprehend what you and your family are going through. Prayers for you and your family.
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Old 10-02-2024, 05:39 AM   #28
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So sorry for your loss.. Prayers sent to your family..
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Old 10-02-2024, 05:43 AM   #29
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Heart felt condolences Dave to you and your family.

I can only begin comprehend how big of a loss that has to be.

Your words are very meaningful, hang in there.
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Old 10-02-2024, 05:45 AM   #30
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I am so very sorry.
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