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08-19-2008, 05:07 PM | #2596 |
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08-19-2008, 05:12 PM | #2597 |
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read #2596. I'm a nice guy and I like to use the whole cocky/funny routine. I'm very confident and I'm a very nice guy. I just don't let anyone push me around or use me. I'm not a pushover - and that's the main reason for the 'nice guys finish last' deal. Many nice guys get pushed around and taken advantage of.
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08-19-2008, 05:14 PM | #2598 | |
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08-19-2008, 05:18 PM | #2599 |
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08-19-2008, 05:20 PM | #2600 |
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Never forget that most, if not all, men are very simple, basic creatures.
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08-19-2008, 05:22 PM | #2601 |
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08-19-2008, 05:24 PM | #2602 |
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08-19-2008, 05:33 PM | #2603 |
Would an idiot do that?
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To elaborate on what DaKCMan said -- and I'm not going to pretend to know how you all think, either -- but from talking to friends who have dated assholes (they get the benefits and I get to listen to their problems ), I think some of it has to do with the fear that they can't do any better. I've had a couple of pretty attractive friends actually ask "do you really think I could do better?" or "do you think I could find someone else?".... so yeah, I think low self esteem has a lot to do with it.
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08-19-2008, 05:38 PM | #2604 | |
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IMO, that's exactly what it is. |
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08-19-2008, 05:46 PM | #2605 | |
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08-19-2008, 06:03 PM | #2606 | |
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By the way, she already admitted to me she has low self esteem. The last thing I want to do is be a dick to her. |
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08-19-2008, 06:06 PM | #2607 |
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08-19-2008, 06:06 PM | #2608 | |
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08-19-2008, 06:08 PM | #2609 |
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Maybe AFTER we go out, or right before to set things up. I don't think it's a good idea right now because she's having trouble talking to me ONLINE. I don't want to sit there eating dead air on the phone for minutes at a time. That would be excruciating.
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08-19-2008, 06:10 PM | #2610 |
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If you don't feel ready that's one thing, but don't expect her to go out with you without talking on the phone first. Chicks are like that.
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