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08-19-2008, 03:49 PM | #2581 |
Stay positive, don't give up
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Good advice there...
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08-19-2008, 03:51 PM | #2582 |
I'll be back.
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08-19-2008, 04:01 PM | #2583 |
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08-19-2008, 04:02 PM | #2584 |
I'll be back.
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08-19-2008, 04:03 PM | #2585 |
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WOW, someone else who has no life
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08-19-2008, 04:06 PM | #2586 |
Stay positive, don't give up
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Nice guys finish last, don't act like she's your everything by kissing her ass or being super nice until you officially have her...
Girls don't dig super nice guys they use them as door mats |
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08-19-2008, 04:08 PM | #2587 |
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08-19-2008, 04:19 PM | #2588 |
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That's probably okay as a general rule but I think I've done pretty well for myself in that department and I've always treated women with a great deal of respect and been incredibly nice. So I don't know if I'm an exception to the rule or I've just dated the exceptions. Of course I'm speaking entirely in terms of dating - my first marriage was another story altogether.
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08-19-2008, 04:19 PM | #2589 |
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That's not really the vibe I'm getting from this one. She doesn't even use foul language.
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08-19-2008, 04:25 PM | #2590 |
Would an idiot do that?
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It doesn't mean you have to blow her off or intentionally take 3 minutes between messages.... but, there's a fine line between 'taking it slow' and 'I wouldn't want to lose you as a friend'. And by 'I wouldn't want to lose you as a friend', she means 'I wasn't ever really interested' or 'you missed your chance'.
Like others have said, if you're available all the time and are carrying the conversation, how do you know if she's interested, or just bored and doesn't want to be rude? You don't have to be someone you're not or play elaborate games... just don't be the puppy that is jumping up and down in the doorway when she comes home everyday. |
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08-19-2008, 04:28 PM | #2591 | |
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08-19-2008, 04:39 PM | #2592 | |
Would an idiot do that?
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I learned the "girls like it if you're a little bit of an asshole" far too late in life, so I give my two cents to any 'nice guy' looking for advice. |
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08-19-2008, 04:44 PM | #2593 |
You think you can get by this?
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08-19-2008, 04:50 PM | #2595 |
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I'm not saying be a complete dickbag.. just don't be the nicest guy in the world willing to do anything and everything at any time ie. a pushover. Have your own life, make decisions, don't always drop whatever you're doing, etc. I'm not saying you need to be rude, but as bearcat said you can't be that puppy waiting for her to get home.
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