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Join Date: Jan 2013
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#227 |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
Join Date: May 2007
Location: ft.lauderdale
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Hey guys.
Just checking in. I am surprised at myself for remembering how strong and resilient I am. Still not ready to talk too much about, though. Distractions and reminders aren't helpful right now. Haven't read the whole thread but I will. This place gets nasty sometimes but it's also jammed packed with good people who aren't afraid to voice their true opinions. What I have read has really helped. Sincerely, thank you. |
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#228 |
Spiraling down the Drain
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Dante's Ninth Circle
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Having your heart ripped apart is the worst. Do not go back. Look forward for your kids . Your resolve will be rewarded. |
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#229 |
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Join Date: Mar 2005
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I'm actually going to suggest something that I haven't seen mentioned.
Forgive her I'm not saying that you guys don't need some counseling, and serious relationship repair, but I know of many couples where the adultery didn't result in divorce. I know that it takes two to tango, but If you really do love her, and your children, then stay and deal with it. Forgiveness isn't about her...it's about you. And honestly, take a few minutes and think about how powerful the testimony will be on the other side of this. To your future children. To your family. To your friends. If God forgives us, we can forgive each other. |
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#230 | |
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Join Date: Jul 2013
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#231 | |
Spiraling down the Drain
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Dante's Ninth Circle
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Wake up to reality, asshole. |
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#232 |
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Join Date: Dec 2009
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#233 | |
pie is never free
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: the drivers seat
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As you say... both sides need to be on board, but it happens frequently I definitely do not agree with "once a cheater, always a cheater"... my ex and I both cheated on each other, and if I am ever lucky enough to find the right girl again, I'll chop off my junk before risking our love for some cheap, fleeting sex |
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Run Chiefs fans, run!!
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Nashville, TN
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#235 |
You gotta kill a few people
Join Date: Sep 2007
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#236 |
You gotta kill a few people
Join Date: Sep 2007
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If there's one thing I don't **** with it's an unfaithful woman
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#237 | |
Andy Reid Supporter
Join Date: Apr 2012
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I would lose all trust. |
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#238 |
pie is never free
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: the drivers seat
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I disagree, Virus... sometimes love IS worth fighting for
Dont know if thats true in BT's case, but people successfully move on from infidelity all of the time |
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#239 |
Cheat Death
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Land of Drincoln
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Dang BT, sorry to hear it.
I've been cheated on and done some cheating. Doing the cheating always feels worse. Can't imagine the emotions of sharing a kid with someone through that. Take it one moment at a time and you'll get through it. |
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#240 |
Stuff & Things
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: The Yukon
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Some of you know that Lumpy and I divorced a few years ago and we have an autistic son together.
Now then, the last thing he needs is people calling her names and telling him to dump her etc. This is a decision that he needs to make on his own. He's got to take so much into account here. What happens to his daughter, his income, property etc. Will the divorce be nasty or not, can they reconcile? Lawyers are expensive. The biggest mistake she and I made was not trying hard enough. We've since reconciled and now we live together again and could not be happier. We should've got counseling and taken some time apart. If we had, we would've made it without losing thousands of dollars. |
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