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02-15-2016, 11:29 AM | #2 |
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02-15-2016, 09:46 AM | #3 | |
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And now, we're friends again, my girlfriend and my ex are friends, and most of all, our BS doesn't get in the way of doing the right things for our kid. Forgiveness is everything. But I could never actually go back to being in an intimate relationship with my ex- she hurt me too much for any possibility of that ever again. It's okay, I understand and I forgive her... but I could never put myself in that situation again. Probably never get married again. And that's okay. |
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02-15-2016, 09:51 AM | #4 | |
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02-15-2016, 10:01 AM | #5 | |
SuperBowl or bust
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You're a good guy, not every woman is untrustworthy. |
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02-15-2016, 09:52 AM | #6 | |
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Forgiveness allows this. There is no timetable for forgiveness. But often if you don't, it will do more harm to yourself. My Wife cheated on me. We got divorced and it ate the hell outa me. I was mad and in the long run the anger was hurting me. I forgave her, and moved on. Today we have a great relationship. We are family. Once you have children together, like it or not, you are family. I know because of this past I became a better man. Wishing you the best. |
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02-15-2016, 12:25 PM | #7 | |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
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My son comes first. Making his mother, whom I love, my enemy will not create anything positive for anyone involved. We've talked about what needs to be done. We are getting along and moving things forward. It's going to be a big change. I've never been away from my son. I don't know how it will be good for either us. I'm kinda his window to the world. She has no idea what she's in for with me not around all the time. I worry for them both. I love them both. I will miss them both. |
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02-15-2016, 12:29 PM | #8 | |
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02-15-2016, 08:47 AM | #9 |
Grand champ
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02-15-2016, 08:50 AM | #10 |
Grand champ
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If there's one thing I don't **** with it's an unfaithful woman
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02-15-2016, 09:00 AM | #11 |
pie is never free
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I disagree, Virus... sometimes love IS worth fighting for
Dont know if thats true in BT's case, but people successfully move on from infidelity all of the time |
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02-15-2016, 09:48 AM | #12 | |
Grand champ
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You may be right. I'm still trying to figure all this shit out. I can just say for myself, I would lose all trust after being cheated on. |
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02-15-2016, 09:07 AM | #13 |
Cheat Death
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Land of Drincoln
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Dang BT, sorry to hear it.
I've been cheated on and done some cheating. Doing the cheating always feels worse. Can't imagine the emotions of sharing a kid with someone through that. Take it one moment at a time and you'll get through it. |
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03-05-2016, 05:49 PM | #14 |
FINALLY! The wait is over.
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02-15-2016, 09:15 AM | #15 |
Stuff & Things
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Some of you know that Lumpy and I divorced a few years ago and we have an autistic son together.
Now then, the last thing he needs is people calling her names and telling him to dump her etc. This is a decision that he needs to make on his own. He's got to take so much into account here. What happens to his daughter, his income, property etc. Will the divorce be nasty or not, can they reconcile? Lawyers are expensive. The biggest mistake she and I made was not trying hard enough. We've since reconciled and now we live together again and could not be happier. We should've got counseling and taken some time apart. If we had, we would've made it without losing thousands of dollars. |
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