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View Poll Results: Tell him the truth now or give him one last Christmas with Santa | |||
Tell him the truth now | 9 | 17.31% | |
Give him one last Christmas with Santa | 37 | 71.15% | |
Gaz (yes, I'm old school CP) | 6 | 11.54% | |
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10-02-2024, 04:29 PM | #91 |
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Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Spink, SD
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My wife handled the situation perfectly with our kids. When the question was asked her answer was he'll stop coming if you don't believe in him. That stopped them asking. To this day, even though they are adults they still get one present from Santa.
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10-02-2024, 05:18 PM | #92 |
legend
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Independence, MO
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You sound like a good mommy.
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10-02-2024, 05:24 PM | #93 |
Inmem 2.0
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: My house
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Luv thread
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10-02-2024, 05:29 PM | #94 |
Fish are scared of me
Join Date: Nov 2001
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I told my daughter when she was 12 and she was pissed off. Still mad at me!
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10-02-2024, 05:47 PM | #95 |
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Highlandville, MO
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I'm probably going to get hammered for this. But, I never did Santa with my daughter. I have never been dishonest with her in any way and I felt that telling her Santa was real was violating her trust. She's 19 now and knows that everything that I have ever told her and will tell her is the truth. Our family was mixed. 2 of my sisters did Santa, the other 2 didn't. When one of my sisters told her son the truth about Santa, he actually said to her, you lied to me all this time? She was devestated about that. I was glad that I never had to have that moment with her. I'm not going to judge anyone for choosing to do Santa. That's up to them as a parent. I'm just telling how I did it. She and I are both happy with the way that it went.
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10-02-2024, 06:12 PM | #96 |
Veteran
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10-02-2024, 07:17 PM | #97 |
pie is never free
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: the drivers seat
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Like most have said... let the kids figure it out on their own, they will when they're ready and able
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10-02-2024, 07:27 PM | #98 |
Seize life. Be an ermine.
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: My house
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10-02-2024, 10:19 PM | #99 |
In Search of a Life
Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: Kansas
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10-02-2024, 10:20 PM | #100 |
In Search of a Life
Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: Kansas
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I let my kids believe until they figured it out. I think my youngest was 10 but suspect his older (by 2 years) brother probably rolled on us prior. But he's such a sweet kid he went along with it for a few extra years. Your son will be hit with the harsh realities of the world soon enough, let him have his fun as long as he can.
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10-02-2024, 11:12 PM | #101 |
Has a particular set of skills
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: On the water
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but, it’s a tradition. **** those parents. They won’t let you wear a red Mohawk to school. Santa brought all those presents.
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10-03-2024, 02:54 AM | #102 |
Spiraling down the Drain
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Dante's Ninth Circle
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Keep Santa.
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10-03-2024, 10:17 AM | #103 |
Fish are scared of me
Join Date: Nov 2001
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10-03-2024, 10:35 AM | #104 |
Veteran
Join Date: Aug 2003
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Mine is 8. And we're all in on Santa
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10-03-2024, 10:36 AM | #105 |
Bono & Grbac wasn't enough
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Sioux City, IA
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