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01-23-2006, 11:09 AM | #2 |
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Was there an orgasm?
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01-23-2006, 11:10 AM | #3 |
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I would never do such a thing. But I'll bet Rainman would.
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01-23-2006, 11:11 AM | #4 |
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I had to put Gaz on ignore because of this. All those Hugs and Kisses at the end of each message really made me uncomfortable.
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01-23-2006, 11:15 AM | #5 | |
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01-23-2006, 11:15 AM | #6 |
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I think when someone goes behind a SO's back and flirts online, it's easier to shrug it off as "innocent". Is it right? Probably not. But this sounds like it's more of a problem with communication between the two spouses. Personally, I probably wouldn't be comfortable with it.
The question is, is it a regular occurance with this SO? |
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01-23-2006, 11:17 AM | #7 |
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I would say if the SO is open about it, and doesn't try to hide it, it's all innocent fun.
If they go out of their way to hide it, it's wrong. |
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01-23-2006, 11:17 AM | #8 |
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Did Oprah steal Clint's log-in?
I mean, really, he just started a thread about on-line flirting. --Infidel Goat |
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01-23-2006, 11:18 AM | #9 |
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Dear Lord.
I don't even care if my man flirts with the waitress bringing our beer. Much less some lonely girl on the internet. |
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01-23-2006, 11:18 AM | #10 | |
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01-23-2006, 11:20 AM | #12 | |
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Keep in mind that "flirting" can cover an awful lot of territory...especially online. I'm not just talking about a giggle or a wink. Of course, some people feel nothing is wrong until bodily fluids are exchanged. |
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01-23-2006, 11:20 AM | #13 |
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I only participate in football message boards and poker sites. I always assume its a dude on the other end, unless I know better.
I made a rule with my wife before we hitched that when I wasn't around, she should simply ask herself.."If Iowanian were watching or listening right now, would he be pissed off?" If the answer is yes, don't do it. I do my best to follow the same rule. I think my limit would be the following. 1. Would she care if I were reading it(or would I care if she read my posts) 2. Is it in the public forum? If it were in Email or PM form....Heads would roll for sure. I trust my bride and she has no reason not to trust me, so its not a problem. But I'm an asshole. |
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01-23-2006, 11:21 AM | #14 |
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As long as thy dont perfect the technology so as to get cyber-spew on my wife's face, I'm ok with it. That said, I generally keep my wife locked up in a dungeon...................
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01-23-2006, 11:21 AM | #15 |
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Does 'flirting' also include unwarranted positive 'rep'?
I really need a ruling on this one. |
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