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Not sure you'll consider this advice, but, and I'm not telling you when, start wrapping your mind around forgiveness, regardless of how she feels. When you're younger people tend to hold on too tightly to their own positions on issues. Only years later do you realize how stupid that is. It's just not something you can iron out over dinner and a movie. It's a stupid power struggle frankly, for far too long. But if you forgive, even if she doesn't, you will feel less empty later on. So sorry you have to go through this. It will take you both to save your relationship. Don't be the thorn of stubbornness, and make sure you stop, if you have been, blaming the other for this or that. Always stay centered on the issue, and only the issue. I hope you save your relationship. I failed, and its left hurt behind for decades. Trust me, forgive because that is path to peace, nothing else comes close.
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