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Originally Posted by Detoxing
There's other ways to teach a kid than a good ass-whoopin'.
Like i said, maybe i'm just lucky, but i find that approaching the situation like he's a man, and treating your boy like he has the maturity to understand the conversation he's about to have, gets the point across better.
He realizes he ****ed up. He realizes he's going to be punished. But he also walks away with the positivity of knowing that his fate is in his own hands.
That's not to say i don't do my share of raising my voice, expressing anger/disappointment and throwing out some, "you're gonna get your ass kicked if you keep that shit up" threats.
Violent, physical pain just isn't necessary. The fear/threat of is generally enough.
Idk, maybe i'm just lucky and my kid is just wired well enough to not need bruises and blood to get the point.
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This.
When a 6 ft, 200+ lb NFL RB is hitting a four year old with a stick with enough force to leave the kid covered in bruises/cuts, that can only be described as child abuse.