Just to be clear.
I'm a huge advocate of 2nd chances. Even for this guy.
If he has his shit together and she wants to be with him. I think I'll actually be happy for her.
But taking on the full brunt of my son's needs is going to make her have a nervous breakdown.
I'm afraid if I'm too nice she's gonna be calling me for help non-stop. And that will piss me off.
She has ALWAYS put her needs education/ career ahead of mine, and I have always been there to handle the weight of the world.
Hope he's gotta strong back.
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