Yet you keep telling yourself there is hope. Everyone told you to block her in every way possible but you continue torturing yourself.

Try an experiment - block her every way possible. If she finds a way to contact you despite all that, then you mean more to her than gum on the bottom of her shoe. If not, you know that you were just convenient and meant nothing.

When I think my life is rough, I like to remind myself that I'm not Discuss Thrower.

You're missing out.

Half dozen bars along with two pizza places, BBQ, and a Chipotle within walking distance. In graduate school so no one really expects anything out of me for at least two years professionally. Baller apartment and a great internet connection.

Is this your Match profile? Should be.

Stop,Chiefs - You need to make her chase you because right now you are not showing her your Alpha side. Move on and see if she wants to keep up. Yes, I know it's difficult. I learned it and it is glorious.

This kind of makes me giggle. Women are told not to chase because it makes them appear clingy. Not you're telling him not to chase. It no one's chasing, then that means you're done and moving on.

I'm not saying be an asshole. He's just too available to her. That should stop.

Unless you're paying for a legitimate matchmaker, Match.com might as well be Ashley Madison.

Also, think I should go to EDC Vegas? I'd pull the trigger right now on a pass but I don't know if I'll get an internship over the summer.

I've got a buddy that's dating someone he met on Match. It's at least somewhat real.

Clay needs to shut her out completely, and never ever let her back in.

She's ducking with him hardcore, and it stands a chance to **** him up emotionally for a loooong time.

Sounds like something an asshole would do.

Sometimes you gotta be the asshole.

We aren't talking their initial courtship. They were dating, she ended it, and now keeps popping back into his life only to rip his heart out again. The onus is on her if she wants to make up for the damage she's done.

EDC is all hype. Go to Coachella in Indio, CA. I'll join ya, but you gotta be cool.

And btw, don't throw that "proper girl" crap around, that mindset is so antiquated. Women are also told not to hop in the sack on the first date (much less contact someone via facebook and ask them if they want to bang), but lord knows that isn't being followed.

How's that working for ya?

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