Lol I'm out of the game for awhile I'll see what my girl decides to do in the mean time I'm gonna hit the gym extra hard and keep my diet on point and make new friends.

Hey, did you tell her you were going no contact? If not, I'd suggest telling her. Wish her well and tell her she has all the space she needs right now.

And move forward regardless.

Horrible idea IMHO. Ghost. Begin now.

Women under 30 have a whole different set of problems, but problems nonetheless. Not to generalize, of course.

I didnt. Figured id text her in a week or so to see how shes doing.

Sure, but tell her why as he seems to want her back.

He's got it covered. Texting later is good. Now she needs to come to you. Period.

Screw that.

If she wants to be in your life she knows how to find you.

And even after that she may be playing games. I ignored a woman who broke up with me for months and out of the blue she started texting me again...was dating some other dude at the time. Not sure what the hell she wanted other than attention. I pursued her and only got shut down.

You guys aren't reading his reason for the breakup openly. And I don't hear Billay saying "**** you bitch" at all. I hear the opposite.

If you're end goal is what you get only from being in the game, then I would suggest not leaving the game completely. Just don't make it your main goal. Do what you do. Be who you are. If you feel the need to improve yourself, then do so. Have fun. Once I decided I was okay being me, being on my own (because finding someone is not a guarantee), and that dating was, at the very least, a good way of meeting people, I stumbled upon my "baby daddy". :)

Hint: If you're going "no contact", then just go no contact. :)
If she texts him, fine. If he's already moved on by the time that happens, if it happens, then it's her loss.

Don't contact her AT ALL. SHE ended it.

You are assuming he wasn't a complete asshole to her in the winter, where this started. Otherwise she wouldn't have dumped him. She's had depressive episodes before. Something this time is different. I've asked Billay to explore that.

One should self assess and act accordingly.

Let's ask him. Billay: Do you want this to work out?

If he wants out, then fine.

Yea I'd like this to workout for sure. Our relationship wasn't bad and we didn't have huge arguments the "bump" in the road was when I began having awful anxiety/depression def. Wasn't myself so I was more distant. She def. has always had depression with mood changes and random outbursts of crying. I don't think this is some act for her just to sleep with other guys she really isn't that kind of gal. It's a strange situation to be in. Normally I'd say either we workout our problems or there's the door but depression really is another animal and since I really do care about her I gotta do what's best and give her space.

So to answer your question yea Dave I want it to workout.

Good luck billay...

The smart thing to do would be to order a bride from the far east! Get yourself some yellow fever. Just a thought.