#whitesplaining

Ha funny this thread just got bumped. I got dumped by a women I've been with for nearly 2 years. I haven't been this depressed since I lost my mom.

Sorry to hear billay.

It will get better

OK, I'll ask. Why did she dump you Billay?

Bet it was your fault. And I hope you are thinking about that now. In fact, look back at all your failed relationships. Are you the common denominator?

Go to the gym!

One door closes and another opens.

Our relationship got a little tough this past winter when I was having terrible anxiety/panic attacks. Fast forward a few months later her depression had gotten bad and last night out of the blue she told me she wanted time to herself while she adjusts to the medicine and deals with her depression. I asked if there was anything else she said that's it. After we took a break aka broke up she got home and sent me this long text about how she loves me. I of course didn't respond.

Step 1: Have friends with single hot friends

Step 2: Talk to said hot friends

Step 3: ??????

Step 4: Profit!

Why are you having panic attacks?

I'm not now that I've gone on medication I had "health anxiety"

Don't text it out... call

Get a bang maid.

She was probably getting plowed by another dude unfortunately and wants to test the waters with it.

I'm goin no contact bruh

Sorry for your troubles. More than likely she was gaslighting you, making your out to be the problem, instead of being straight about her own shady bullshit. Sorry, but it's probably true that she was up to no good.

Yeah, I would know. Just caught my now ex in bed with her chiropractor last Thursday. I knew something was wrong for at least a month. Something told me in my gut, a deep nagging pain to go home that day, in a monsoon. She tried to keep me locked out via the deadbolt, but garage door opener came in really handy. I dropped some personal bombs on her for a couple of days after, told people that needed to know what she was up to etc. Then I ghosted. Been a week now and I'm free of her self absorbed bullshit and well on my way back to me. It's funny how stupid she thought I was. ****ing idiot. I wished her good luck in finding someone that would accept her and her intolerable 40# ball and chain.

PS- Thanks Stevie Ray.

JFC walking in on it would be pretty brutal