Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.

DiscDiscuss get ya a slam pig and you can test the theory out

Lots to read here. Take your time and absorb it. It WILL give you a much better perspective on things and you just might free yourself from the bondage of your own heart. It's been working for me.

http://illimitablemen.com/category/red-pill-theory/

Red pill is an awful thing. You don't need to treat women like shit in order to get a gf.

Sorry that's what you took from it.

Red Pill.. Oh man... I've witnessed first hand shitty dudes attracting and keeping quality girls which would make a lesser idiot think it's the ticket to success.

No. It's not like that. Dudes who are objectively attractive physically will get what they want. Assholes will appeal to insecure types who need validation and a huge dick head with upside will seem like the Mt Everest of people who should be validating others. Guys who keep most every detail of their thoughts and non public lives private will attract and hold women who are keen on unraveling mysteries.

In the end it comes down to being attractive in some gradient of physical, emotional and societal. If you're more unattractive in at least one of those three you're going to be ****ed. It's just how it is.

Also consider sunk cost type of thinking.

You.are.a.pussy.

Fite me IRL

You don't want that drama

I don't think he wants to get laid

The only pill she ****s with is bc

Why are you freaking out? Cousins always friend each other on facebook.

Just got back from a week in San Diego. Hot chicks all over with guys a few notches below what you might expect to see them with. Pretty weird. Suggest a few of you with girl troubles move out that way.

I've been going out a bit more lately. Drinking mostly.

I can't believe people have trouble meeting girls. I mean, meeting a girl that's worthy of a long-term relationship may be kind of tough, but having trouble getting laid? No ****ing way. There are way too many whores out there.

Virus getting that big booty

Back online dating this shit is so boring. Getting a lot of looks not many responses ROFL

Lie and raise your income

Good idea ROFL

Lmao this good looking girl I know asked if she could workout with me and I want to hit it

my heart is broken

'S'wrong, Goatse?

Alex smith gets more ass and nobody loves clay

Is it bad to enjoy some drinks alone then hit up the bars alone in hopes of finding some tail?

I'd imagine you'll look like a desperate weirdo if you have zero friends and you're drunkenly swaying while you stare down women.

if you love something let it go and if it comes back to you ignore it

Sounds like fun!

So you are saying there is a chance!

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Also, Billay, when I move to westport I'll hit up bars with ya.

Not that you'll take me up on this offer, but you know.

Sucks man.

Count is goin hoggin. 3 3s equal a 9!!

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Noooooooooooooooooooooo!

Friend is having a bachelorette party tomorrow invited me to stop by the hotel or do I go to my friends party in Lawrence?

go Count Zarth, grab a bag of Cheetos or dicks watch porn and pull a couple off.

He's going to bang a homely chick....she will appreciate it more

This isn't about sex. And that's not going to help.

I think I'm going to write her a letter.

Don't do that.

Oh boy

:facepalm:

Don't have anything to lose at this point.

It seemed like every chick I got semi serious with had some story of a guy who wrote them an awkward letter. Some even kept them like a weird hall of shame of guys that lost their shit over them. I'd advise against it, or at least advise against sending it. I had one chick write me a letter and slid it under my door after she gained access to my building. It basically confirmed that I was making the right decision in avoiding her.

It's not like she doesn't want me. She has a damned keepsake of our time together. She re-initiated contact for a reason. She's just scared of getting hurt or something. I have to pour my heart out or I'll regret it forever. I don't think she really knows how I feel about her.

no wonder you idiots have so many issues getting laid.


You assholes have absolutely no ****ing common sense. This is a no brainier

I would recommend he stay home and treat himself to a stranger

ROFL I get laid bruh it's relationships that are the struggle

Lawrence it is!

Actually, she probably does, but she's just not that into you bro. You already messaged her on facebook. Writing her a letter would be the creepiest, most awkward thing you could do here.

Wrong. She didn't add me on facebook after 4 months and text me out of nowhere for no reason. That's not something you do when you don't care about someone.

Don't do that.

Don't pour your heart out. You will regret it later. It will be one of those memories later that make you cringe.

Tell her you understand her issue, that you like her, enjoy her company and are not those other guys. Then move on. Ball's in her court.

But you can't make woman be with you.

I've done it as a reflex when things fell through with someone else. She's just putting out feelers to see if her fallback plan(s) are still there.

This isn't going to end well for you, but fire away with your archaic messaging methods.

Nope. I have to do this for my own sanity. I can't keep this bottled up.

Going to give it a couple weeks but need to see it through.

There's millions of women out there and Clay is still talking about this bitch ROFL

Yep. Her #1 dude is wavering on her or they had a fight or something. She's not interested in you as anything more than a backup plan brah.

Delete her number and block her on FB and hit the gym.

I don't think he should have added her in the first place but now that he has leave her there and pretend she doesn't exist posts pics of you having fun show that you don't need her. You'll become more attractive this way and when/if she comes crawling back then you'll have a decision to make. As for now you are wasting your time.

It's been four months and I'm still not over her. I've dated/****ed other women. This isn't going away easily.

I never said it would be easy but she's playing you this isn't good for your confidence and dating is 40% confidence.

Are you unable to speak to her personally? It's cool to tell her how you feel, but don't put something out there that others may be able to read and you can never get back.

I know I have put a little extra mustard on the pounding after reading an emo letter some dude sent my girl.

That's not something she would do.

We've been texting. I was going to call her last night but she ignored me.

ROFL I'm sure those ignored texts are good for your confidence and she's not playing games.


Come on dude.....

Just one. Could be a lot of reasons.

If you feel that strongly, Jerry Maguire the situation. I just wouldn't put something out there a girlfriend, or worse, boyfriend could get some chuckles out of.

Usually I'm with the whole "express your feelings so you have no regrets later" move, but come on, Count..

If she ignored your call, she doesn't want to speak to you. That may change in the future, but as of now I'd say it's best to ease up off the gas.

Thrusted by a young stud at time of text

Don't listen to them. Fly a banner over her house.

**** that, pull out the big dogs. Drive around the block multiple times while screaming her name

Thank you for the derision. That's just what I need to mend my broken heart.

Billy give me a shout if you are in lawrence. I lost my shit over a girl awhile back, but it wasn't as bad as it used to be. When you feel yourself losing it is about maintaining as much self respect as possible.

Like getting double teamed by a couple of bros.

We've got a fallen brother here and you guys are being dicks.

Forget it Dave. It's Chiefsplanet.

it's OK. I'll beat off tonight and feel a lot better.

Clay, you were supposed to have learned this lesson years ago. She was testing the waters for a friendship. You likely never will be ready for that. First love is a bitch. Don't write the letter.

After 4 months? Bullshit.

I have no sympathy. He's an asshole, especially to fat people and chiefs homers. I happen to be neither, but I look out for the marginal, man.

Longer than your relationship, no? Women think differently than men. Would explain her hesitancy, as you have obvious feelings still.

Who's being a dick? If I wanted to sell dreams I'd be a used car salesman. The sooner Clay comes to reality the quicker he can move on.

Maybe she didn't feel the same about your relationship as you did...?