Lol you think it was an excuse?

I keep telling you that I know several single women that have used online dating and say the exact opposite - 99% of the guys that they meet are either freaks or douchers just looking to get laid as quickly as possible. Many of them have said its not worth the effort (yes, looking through a billion lame emails is effort) and quit after a couple of months.

Online dating is the same for women as it is for men, if not slightly to our disadvantage. Men online are looking for women like you guys describe. Women looking to date actually look at a little more than just looks. If a guy wasn't "hot", but had a really great profile that made me laugh or think or seem like we had a lot in common, they were still worth taking a chance on. Guys look at profile pictures and think "not hot enough" and just keep going.

I have an extended family member whom I liken to Jerry Seinfeld, in that he always finds some ridiculously small and inconsequential "wrong" with the women he dates. He's always holding out for something absolutely perfect.

Example, he brough one gal over to a cookout. She was very pretty. Carried herself very well. Had a quick wit and great sense of humor. She was pretty much enamoured with him. A few weeks later her name came up, and we found out they weren't dating any more. Come to find out, after hearing some long story, he pretty much ended it because she had a habit of biting her nails. LMAO.

Meanwhile, he's 38, and single.

They should build a dating site around nail biting. Here's a funny one:

http://www.glutenfreesingles.com/

I have two friends like this.

I call it the "She's cool buuuuuuuut..." dating style. They always provide themselves an inconsequential reason to end relationships.

You are spot on. It has made me realize I'm somewhat shallow:eek:

....and the wife and I are constantly getting flack because we don't have kids and aren't planning on having any. Meanwhile, he little brother hasn't been in a relationship longer than a month since he was 20. But that shit never comes up.

Sounds like someone is afraid of commitment. Or he wants to end it before she finds out what she doesn't like about him. Everyone is going to have something about them that the other doesn't like. You just have to find someone with qualities that make the things you don't like a breeze to "deal with".

Definitely could be. They don't like telling the truth.

Luv doesn't speak for every woman. Some are just as shallow.

Yes, I was making generalizations. Not all guys only look at appearance, and not all women have some sort of depth.

Lol so she said she was breaking up with me because she couldn't give 100% to the relationship and wanted to spend time and focus on her mom who has cancer and isn't doing good. I get back on Okcupid and guess who's account is back up?

Sooooooooo....you're stalking her?

No I got a new message in my inbox right below that one is hers from awhile ago

Ah, well. Worse things have happened.

You have to realize that people are going to do what's best for them. The sooner you realize that, specifically in the dating game, the better off you'll be.

That could be true and she still wants to date but not get serious. Either way it doesn't matter what she said, it was a means to an end.

At that point I usually say the word "NEXT" and just roll that way.

Have you been using those lines/message I gave you to use when messaging women on OKC?

billay got bounced by a big bitch

What a wonderful alliteration.

Irony

Yeah got a date Saturday night

The date is with a girl from high school.

High school? Is this you?

http://i.kinja-img.com/gawker-media/...6785866900.jpg

LMAO

Wut

On to the NEXT! Right on.

I recently met up with a girl I knew in HS. I had fun:thumb:

Dude, you're better than that.

Huh?

Look for someone closer to your own age.

I see what you did there. This chick grqudated a year before me.

Oh. Well, might have something to talk about. Good.

Maybe. All I know is ill never do online dating. Hooking up sure but dating no way. I can honestly say I've never had a normal break up with a girl I've met online.

Told ya man. I have heard the "I don't have time to date" bull shit before too. If someone is truly interested they will make it work.

You need to get up to northern states my man. You'd be living the life as a man of color up here. Chicks in my home state would dig you. Weed through enough easy pussy and find a gem when you're ready.

Have you considered moving north?

Drunken thoughts and here's and here's a non dating question.

Say there's a gal you liked but you begain to notice what a whore and disgusting subhuman she was what would you do? This girl I've known for a year I went out with tonight literally bragged about having 3-4 boyfriends. I quickly removed her from all social media and I'm debating blocking her #

Drunken thoughts and here's and here's a non dating question.

Say there's a gal you liked but you begain to notice what a whore and disgusting subhuman she was what would you do? This girl I've known for a year I went out with tonight literally bragged about having 3-4 boyfriends. I quickly removed her from all social media and I'm debating blocking her #

At once?

Props to the sucubus. That's a shit ton of work.

She will eat your soul billay

No I don't associate with her. Is this becoming a new trend with women though?

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Simply Gainz what it do? You still bunkin that cougar?

Holy shit.

So I've been ****ing this girl for a few weeks. We're technically not dating, her choice. She doesn't want a boyfriend. Even so, we had dinner last week before we ****ed. I paid.

I asked her to come over Friday and she said she was busy. That's fine, whatever.

Checked with her today to see if she wants to get together this week and she said "you made me feel disposable by not replying Friday."

Bitch we're not even dating and I still bought you dinner last week. And you feel "disposable." Because I didn't reply when you said you were busy. WHAT THE ****?!

Women. :rolleyes:

Mind games man. Mind games. She wants more now.

I suspect, in actuality, she's just ****ing someone else.

Which, you know, she could just ****ing tell me that.

That's what I get for fooling around with a 26-year old, though. They're all idiotic ****ing ****s at that age.

This thread is the Chiefs of dating threads..

Factory of sadness

I'm happy enough, I ****ed the shit out of her for 3 weeks.

Should have been 3 months, though.

God dammit. Ending a **** buddy relationship over a text message. How dumb can a bitch be.

And GoChiefs is Alex Smith.

:deevee:

**** this ****ing shit.

I'm getting a big pile of BBQ tomorrow.

WE WEREN'T EVEN ****ING DATING

AND SHE GETS MAD OVER ME NOT SENDING A TEXT

WHAT THE **** HO

Just like Alex Smith. No pocket awareness, completely frozen for the sack. Now Peyton Manning is marching up and down her field with his noodle arm.

**** that bitch bruh.

Women are ****ING IDIOTS.

I just ordered a PIZZA.

Trust me when I say this... I KNOW. Do not text her... control yourself if you have that urge. eat that pizza.. put some ranch on it and work out hard tomorrow.

Would you like to practice having a conversation with women?

The only time you want to talk to the girl is when you want to see her. Lo and behold the only times you see her, you're ****ing her. She absolutely was disposable to you.

You didn't have the time of day for anything else.

Should have texted back "**** you tomorrow?"

Always put the ball in their court.

Incorrect on all counts.

1. We had already established the parameters of our relationship. It was not to be serious. It was to be about ****ing, mostly.

2. I TOOK HER TO DINNER ANYWAY.

3. We actually enjoyed just hanging out talking and not ****ing.

4. THE SEX WAS HISTORICALLY SPELLBINDING AND I DID NOT WANT TO DISPOSE OF HER FOR MANY MONTHS

You're full of shit, she's full of shit, I'm full of pizza.

Sounds to me like you expected Clay to be a Boy Friend. Clay stated she did not want such a relationship, so why would he contact her for anything else? He paid for dinner, which he is not required too do as they are in it for the sex. I'm assuming they had a convo during dinner.. so it isn't strictly.. show up.. sex.. and leave. Anything beyond that is unnecessary for a sex relationship.

Yeah that sounds like me. :spock:

Lick Clays nuts all you want, I'm telling you when a guy cares why you're busy, he asks. When he wonders how you're doing, he asks.

When he doesn't ask, he doesn't care.

Cry victim all you want. It's pointless and you could be balls deep in pussy right now. Instead of just pizza.

lol typical women being entitled. Why would he need to ask if she's busy if she just plainly stated.. "no, i'm sorry i'm busy.. i got xyz going on.. or i'm doing xyz and I have dick in my pussy plans tonight".. why? because that would be too logical. That's what people do. If someone states they are busy and does not disclose the reason, especially knowing the relationship between the party is beyond platonic.. then it's none of my business. Woman love games.

Disposable things aren't entitled to anything.

I thought we established that Clay was the Alex Smith of dating. You're not making sense.

Can't be. Clay has a cheerleader.

Start drinking and texting old flames (i.e. hitting your checkdowns)

yet, nongf's are entitled to BF level of concern.

The pizza place gave me a large instead of a medium at no extra cost.

Karmic fortune rewards me.

You're right, I didn't care. Because we had established that neither of us should care at that point.

That didn't mean I thought she was disposable. I wasn't ****ing anyone else and frankly didn't want to be ****ing anyone else.

She's ****ing other guys clay

duh

she prob has a bf tbh.

Probably. Why not just ignore me, then?

Do you really need to ask that question

I'd MUCH rather be ignored than this cockamamie "oooh you didn't text me in the appropriate manner respectful of my religious beliefs" bullshit.

Because she likes attention and she's probably insecure.

Quit buying her shut treat her like a video game and enjoy the sex. This chick sounds high maintenance and not dateable.

I don't pretend to know and don't care to, now.

We were having great sex, she got free dinner and drinks as a bonus, and she ****ed it all up over a text message.

Bitches be crazy.

Very disappointing, since she seemed to have her head screwed on straight. Apparently not.

She just wanted to **** like a dude with no strings attached.. of course her head isn't screwed on straight. Those bitches switch on you the quickest

You're over thinking this man. Enjoy getting laid from her just know it will end eventually and keep your eyes out for a real one.

Absolutely. Back to the pizza.

Disposable things aren't entitled to anything.

Good lord. I can't believe you are single.

nongf's/est. **** buddies aren't entitled to extended concern

It was a total bonus. WE WEREN'T DATING.