Wait guys, new shit has come to light..

Best line I've read in here.

Quit being a pussy. She dicked you over. Post nudes on the Internet. It's only fair.

This.

Yup.

Tit for tat.

Looks like Florida has a revenge porn law. I didn't bother to confirm, but, with it being Florida and all, I am assuming Floridians are required to post revenge porn after breakups.

:hmmm:

Sorry to hear about this tribe. Even though this board can be a madhouse, I think I speak for us all when I say you've got a 'tribe' of friends here. God bless.

"What would've you done in my shoes your honor?"

"Case dismissed!"

Never walk away from the house. That's for them to do.
Never take them back.
Go to the courts and get custody worked out.
Never buy into the calls for forgiveness.

And post her nudes.

I know this won't be a popular response but FWIW it is okay to hate the bitch and still be a great father to your son. And hate can be healthy. If she had any respect for you IMO she would have never deceived you to the point of you having to catch her with the dude. She should have come to you prior to moving on to a physical relationship with another person. Was the deceit a fall back plan in case it didn't work out with the other guy considering she knew his past history. She sounds like a typical selfish person to me.

I'm not in the camp that it is okay to stray from a relationship if two parties are willing to work it out when the consequences from that infidelity come to light. That is a have your cake and eat it mentality. A mentality that usually does not stand the course of a lifetime required in a healthy marriage. Best advice to give is to move on physically and mentally. Become an advocate of yourself and your son. Do not consider her feelings any longer. And enjoy the rest of your life like a ****ing rock star.

Ya know.....you could always forgive her...and then become swingers. Or have an "Open relationship". Just sayin'.

Remember that is still the mother of your child.

Don't ruin anything for your kid, despite what the resident perverts think is best.