She says its just as friends and if the guys tries anything shes done with him... she told me what the deleted text said and her reasoning is she knew I would get mad... she claims it said "I'm glad we all got to hang out tonight" I said how can you not see that he likes you, and she said how can you think he does. I said I'm a guy and I've seen this happen, hell I've been him before. She just doesn't get it...

Dude, is she ignorant and or reeruned? You don't go to see a movie with a ****ing dude when you're involved with someone. Period.

I can't believe the shit I'm reading.

Honestly dude, she gets it. You don't. I'm sorry to have to say that to you, but it's time to go. I promise.

Dude, she's a liar and a cheat. As tough as it will be to break it off, do it yesterday.

Dude, dude, dude... ROFL

This is getting aggravating... dump her.

Ask yourself this: If they were innocent txts, why would she delete them?

Just get rid of her man....it's the best thing for both of you.

I would ask her why it's so important for her to go with this guy. What does it mean to her? is this some friendship that she cant' live without? Is it worth your relationship with her for her to go out with him?

Seriously, tell her to put herself in your shoes, if she says she'd be cool with it, call your ex or any other girl you know and start going places with them. Or better yet, smile and walk away.

I know it's easy for people who aren't involved to offer blunt advice because they have no emotional investment.

But there's a reason why the suggestions you're getting are all about the same...

In the long term, you're going to be very happy to have this chapter in your life behind you.

We've all been through break ups. In this case, the sooner you do it, the less you will hurt in the end. Like I said before, the world is just a shitty place after a break up, but eventually everything goes back to normal.

Exactly. Risk vs. reward can't look very good at this point. How long have you guys been together? If it's this way now, how will it be in 5 years? 10? 20? Once you have kids, it's all ****ing over.

I don't know, I generally find the sun brighter, the air fresher, the grass greener, the food tastes better.

Maybe I've just dated the wrong psychopathic emotional vampires.

I have more blunt advice that will definitely help:

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