Originally Posted by BigMeatballBillay (Post 12946914)

Lemme **** her

Originally Posted by Hammock Parties (Post 12946899)

In other news, the ex is really struggling with the breakup. She texted me a lot of shit tonight about how much she misses me. I feel like she needs some kind of help that her regular therapist can't handle. Any suggestions? It's hard knowing she's suffering but I know I shouldn't reply to her either. I talked her down a bit tonight and told her not to contact me again.

Originally Posted by Hammock Parties (Post 12939890)

My brain is swimming in dopamine. Being single again is amazing.

Originally Posted by BWillie (Post 12947131)

**** you. Lucky SOB. My late 20's and early 30's so far are a complete waste.

Originally Posted by Hammock Parties (Post 12941294)

There were slight warning signs when we began the moving process and then some of those signs got worse when we were living together. Even though I cared for her a great deal and still do, being around her every day instead of just two or three days a week, I just began to see her more as a friend than a lover. It had only been three months living together, and so I knew the connection wasn't going to be strong enough to go the long haul. I wasn't too fond of her family, either.

I knew eventually the urge to cheat on her would be stronger than my dedication to her and I couldn't hurt her in that way. And putting her through our upcoming family barbecue and vacation would be unfair, so I made the move before those events bonded us even more.

I was very robotic and unemotional about the breakup, due to advice I had been given. This seemed to hurt her, but I knew it was the only way to do it given that her emotions would be running wild.

This is tough for her because in a lot of ways because she was always very dependent on me, and this was really her first real long-term relationship. She gave me a sterling silver pocket watch with the most precious inscription I've ever read. It was something a wife gives to a husband though, not a girlfriend to her boyfriend.

So I always knew she loved me more than I loved her. I did love her though. So when my gut told me that love wasn't going to last forever I had to do the right thing. It's best for both of us long term, even if she is now suffering in the short term.

She will find someone else because she's too great a girl not to. Once she realizes that in six months I'm sure she'll be fine.

Interestingly enough we didn't fight one time in 18 months.

Originally Posted by BigMeatballBillay (Post 12947362)

Bwill u married?

Originally Posted by BWillie (Post 12947364)

Might as well be. Been with same girl for 8 years now. Many times I wish I was single (don't tell her that) but I'm afraid that ship has sailed. She would lose her mind if we ever split up. I don't live with her though, so that helps. I prefer to just do the franchise tag ever year versus the long-term deal. I think I would go crazy if I got married and had to live and see my spouse every single day. Marriage can be difficult for introverted people like me. If you talked to me in a social setting, you might not think I was introverted but I need my me time and space or I go insane.

Originally Posted by Hammock Parties (Post 12947490)

i'm in love

Originally Posted by Hammock Parties (Post 12947490)

i'm in love

Originally Posted by scho63 (Post 12947515)

One good blowjob and you're back in love?

What"s the lucky fellas name?